Mr.Smith13579 Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 hey guys, same old story im in love with one of my best friends. Ive known her for around 5 or 6 years and we are really good friends but ever since ive met her she is constantly on my mind 24/7 i really dont know what to do. Do i tell her i love her and risk our friendship? or do i sit back and continue in this hurt everytime i see her knowing i cant tell her? is there any way of knowing how she feels with out her knowing how i feel ? Any1 out there who can help me, any advice im really stuck, cheers
moman Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 Tell her but do it gently, as in "I'm thinking we are more than friends and I have emotions for you, what are your thoughts?" Accept that this admission may ruin the friendship and she does not reciprocate. In my past, it caused some short term bumps but we were much better friends long term because of it (and no, dating my best friend did not work).
Krytellan Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 I dont know about you, but I have enough friends in life. I need more friends like a hole in the head. If this person means that much to you, just tell her. If she doesn't want to be your friends after, well, that says a lot anyway. I live my life by the motto "whatever happens, no regrets". Just go for it. If you don't that will bug you the rest of your life. And if she says no, who cares. And if the friendship ends, well, good riddance to that then. You gotta go for it.
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