irmajor Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 Someone please explain what is taking it slow?? Why take it slow? If me and my date are caught up in the romance why can't we just have sex--just like they do in the movies? Why do people keep telling me "Once you have sex with her everything will change?" Someone please explain.
Krytellan Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 Sounds to me like you want to have sex with her and she wants to take it slow... is that right? Women want to typically take it slow because if they slept with everyone they went on a first date with they would all be sluts. Obviously, they don't want that. Also, women can become more emotionally attached after sex and therefore more easily hurt by some guy who decides to have sex then dump her. I'm writing and realizing that there are far too many reason for women to take it slow. I think that you need to thik to yourself why this might be. If you can't come up with any answers, I think you need to do some learning a bout women and relationships.
Meggedy Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 As a woman, I feel the same way.....but I still take it slow. Allow me to explain. I used to just go with the flow, as you're describing, and not worry about holding of on getting physical. However, after the first couple of times that I just went with the flow, it didn't work out.....you feel a lot different the next morning than the night before. I just remember that even if I am really feeling a guy, I probably will be in a different state of mind the next morning, and I don't want to be there. Women do get emotional when sex comes into play, and when we move too fast we often get the short end of the stick and end up feeling stupid and used. Now that said, I have no set timeframe or whatever. But I think the people that say wait 6 months or something like that have waaay more willpower than me. I say a month or so - if you haven't figured out if you like the person enough to get physical by that point, it's doomed anyways.
Waldin Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 Someone please explain what is taking it slow?? Why take it slow? If me and my date are caught up in the romance why can't we just have sex--just like they do in the movies? Why do people keep telling me "Once you have sex with her everything will change?" Someone please explain. i don't no co'z i don't have been try to sex to any one i'm a virgin age of 20 right now.. yeah it's a funny but is real i'm a virgin...
ashlei171 Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 I think taking it slow for most women just means waiting for the physical stuff untill the emotional is there too. In otherwords, if shes starting to like you maybe shell kiss ya... etc... yeah women do get attached when there is a physical connection made... If she says she wants to take it slow she may not mean like until marriage just until shes sure shes ready to be with you.. is she just out of a relationship????
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