MissL Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 I dated my ex for 2 years, lived together for one. We were friends for one year before all that. He was my first true love and we were in love. He was always so caring. He wrote me the sweetest letters and poems. That lasted til the end. He moved out two years ago now. I didn't talk to him after that, but he texted my best friend, Damon two months ago in October to have him wish me a happy birthday. Why did he do that? Two years later, and I'm ready to break down over all of the old feelings that came back. Why did he do that? I'm fine without him. He's one of the ones that I can never be friends with. It hurt too badly when we broke up. And now he pops back up once, JUST once, and I'm left with the memories and remnant pain. How do I make it go away? I know not to talk to him, but how do I forget again?
D-Lish Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 You may feel like you're back at square one at the moment, but it will pass. Sometimes things pop up to make you remember, then a relapse occurs. But you've done most of your grieving- and you've come a long way. Your progress won't be wiped out by one incident. You'll snap back in a couple days. That happens to me every once and a while, but I seem to get over the relapses quicker now. Just keep busy for the time being. And don't fight the feelings, just deal with them and let them pass again.
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