jillybabes Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 won't go over the history again, but after 3 years we broke up 4 months ago or so. his new gf now lives with him. i have been doing NC and he has rung me a few times for a booty call, (showing how much he actually loves the newbie, more fool her because she knew full well what he did to me!) but have heard nothing for 2 months. tomorrow is the anniversary of my losing the best mother in the world. he sent me a card. although at first it tugged at my heart strings enough to want to text "thanks", now i am strongly inclined to ignore it. but it's just the fact that it relates to my mother, that means i can't ignore it... shall i go with my instinct of ignoring him or shall i send a one word text message which acknowledges his thoughts of my mum but doesn't invite contact again? help!
Krytellan Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 He didn't do it because he truly cared about the sentiment. He wanted to remind you about him. You know that already but you want to believe otherwise. He has no right to care about you or your family or to worry about you or how you're doing. He gave up that right when you two separated. So no, don't contact him. The sadistic side of you can even enjoy the fact that that will bug the Hell out of him.
Art_Critic Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Silence speaks the loudest.. At least it always has when I have been on the receiving end of it.
Author jillybabes Posted December 8, 2006 Author Posted December 8, 2006 i had decided to ignore him, and your advice has confirmed that was the right thing to do. tosser!! xx
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