DanielMadr Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Well I never knew that bitchy girls were that much hated by those who are not. It's not their fault they can get guys. Blame the guy who ends up with them I say. Their the ones that end up with them too. If they don't want a mean girl nor a nice girl. Then who is left? I think it just comes down to the guys preference and whether or not the two click. Yeah blame guys for everything :D Bitch is bitch, jerk is jerk, wuss is wuss....it is only their fault. Even if they were spoiled by parents they are adult now and can change themselves or shut up. Girls go for MEDIUM. Guys go for MEDIUM. Balance is the key.
amaysngrace Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Balance is the key. Yep. Women have to know their limitations of what they will and won't put up with. If a woman is so submissive she lets a guy crap on her and stays, how is she ever suppose to be treated with the respect she's after? You gotta have balance.
SmoochieFace Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Yep. Women have to know their limitations of what they will and won't put up with. If a woman is so submissive she lets a guy crap on her and stays, how is she ever suppose to be treated with the respect she's after? You gotta have balance. Hold up... why is it that people make the assumption that if a girl (or guy) is 'submissive' then the other person will crap on her/him? Why do people almost always assume the worst about others?
Pyro Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Guys love bitches. Cheat on them, leave them for another guy, they will only want you more. Give them mixed signals, avoid them, bring it on. If you treat them with nothing but kindeness and respect, give your all to them, they will end up falling for some bitch and treating you like crap. It's those bossy, selfish, uncaring, cold girls that get best guys, looks don't even come into it. This is 101% NOT TRUE.
Kinger25 Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 What about a happy medium ? I mean, I am not 100% nice but I am not 100% nasty either. I wont get walked on and I stick up for myself and if my BF steps out of line, I def let him know about it (even though he doesn't listen to a word I say anyway - in fact I tell him to get his haircut because I like it long !! ) I can be the bitchiest bitch in the world if I want / need to be but I can also be an angel sent from heaven, if necessary. I think a bit of bitch mixed with a slice of nice has got to be the best way to bag the right bloke dont you?
IWalkAlone Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Where I live, intelligent, well balanced, or "nice" women ar invariably married or in stable relationships. Women who are not in relationships tend to be 1) Hot and will only date guys they think are hot, 2) Angry and distrustful of men, 3) boring and asexual, or 4) fat and/or unattractive. "Nice" has nothing to do with it.
SmoochieFace Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 What about a happy medium ? I mean, I am not 100% nice but I am not 100% nasty either. I wont get walked on and I stick up for myself and if my BF steps out of line, I def let him know about it (even though he doesn't listen to a word I say anyway - in fact I tell him to get his haircut because I like it long !! ) I can be the bitchiest bitch in the world if I want / need to be but I can also be an angel sent from heaven, if necessary. I think a bit of bitch mixed with a slice of nice has got to be the best way to bag the right bloke dont you? Act like a 'bitch' towards me and I guarantee you will be gone. That behaviour is something I will not put up with for any reason. Even if you are a 'hottie' you will still be history. See... some women think that they can act up and get away with it simply because they are 'good-looking'. Not with me they can't.
db75 Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Nice women? Where? What nonsense.....Well, I'm off to the magic grove now, the unicorn needs to be fed.
Pyro Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Nice women? Where? What nonsense.....Well, I'm off to the magic grove now, the unicorn needs to be fed. I know its hard to believe, but they do exist.
amaysngrace Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I know its hard to believe, but they do exist. I'm more nice than bitchy. By a lot.
SmoochieFace Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I know its hard to believe, but they do exist. Oh, they do exist but they are very few and far in between. I had to go 600 miles before I found one... well, actually, she found me.
Pyro Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I'm more nice than bitchy. By a lot. I somehow believe that. I also think that there are two different types of bytch. There are the ones who are hot headed and always pissed off about something, probably due to some insecurity, and then there is the joking type. The smartass if you will
amaysngrace Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I somehow believe that. Gee thanks, Ridster. I think personally that women who are generally bitchy are just unhappy. And mostly unhappy with themselves. The same thing with jerks.
Pyro Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Gee thanks, Ridster. I think personally that women who are generally bitchy are just unhappy. And mostly unhappy with themselves. The same thing with jerks. I agree with this all the way. Ridster? Thats a new one, but I like it.
monkey00 Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 yea, its' true we all want what we cant have. We place more value on things that require more work to attain. I think it's just the ego trip. bitches cant be bitches when they're kicked off the pedestal. As people get older their egos get larger and larger. As people get older it seems they goes backwards, they become more child-like. Making compromises and accepting weakness/defeat is a sign of strength. Gloating one's strength is inevitably a sign of weakness and insecurity. I dont mean to make generalizations here but the ones that DO stick around the jerks/bitches should place a higher value on themselves and walk away. The jerks/bitches are just power hungry, you strip that away and deep down they're just insecure people like the rest of us.
amaysngrace Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I agree with this all the way. Ridster? Thats a new one, but I like it. I called you Riddy before, and I didn't want to be unoriginal.
Pyro Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Making compromises and accepting weakness/defeat is a sign of strength. Gloating one's strength is inevitably a sign of weakness and insecurity. I dont mean to make generalizations here but the ones that DO stick around the jerks/bitches should place a higher value on themselves and walk away. The jerks/bitches are just power hungry, you strip that away and deep down they're just insecure people like the rest of us. This is brilliant stuff.
Pyro Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I called you Riddy before, and I didn't want to be unoriginal. I am always up for new names.
db75 Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I know its hard to believe, but they do exist. Ya know, Santa Claus is coming to town in a couple weeks too right? Seriously though, there are some. I've dated a few who started off nice...just seems the evil half eventually takes over.
milvushina Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I somehow believe that. I also think that there are two different types of bytch. There are the ones who are hot headed and always pissed off about something, probably due to some insecurity, and then there is the joking type. The smartass if you will Yes...I'm one of the nicest people I know and I can't be with someone who is overly sensitive, because I'll hurt their feelings with sarcasm and frankness. But I don't scream or call names, backstab or stay uptight about stuff. My husband is a nice balance of sweetheart and smartass jerk, too. I noticed in high school when I tried to be sweet and engaging to guys, I got a worse reaction than the girls who would act indifferent or snobby. In the more recent past, I had a guy who complained that our relationship was boring because we didn't have fights, so maybe the answer's that some people think bitchy is exciting.
Pyro Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Yes...I'm one of the nicest people I know and I can't be with someone who is overly sensitive, because I'll hurt their feelings with sarcasm and frankness. But I don't scream or call names, backstab or stay uptight about stuff. My husband is a nice balance of sweetheart and smartass jerk, too. I noticed in high school when I tried to be sweet and engaging to guys, I got a worse reaction than the girls who would act indifferent or snobby. In the more recent past, I had a guy who complained that our relationship was boring because we didn't have fights, so maybe the answer's that some people think bitchy is exciting. Thats my kind of balance. Yes unfortunately some people do require and crave drama in their relationship life. I have been there and done that already. I avoid those type at all costs.
Pyro Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Oh, they do exist but they are very few and far in between. I had to go 600 miles before I found one... well, actually, she found me. I didn't even have to leave state, but the key is to not get frustrated and lose your patience when you meet the wrong type. You have to keep getting back on the horse and re-applying yourself out there.
SmoochieFace Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I didn't even have to leave state, but the key is to not get frustrated and lose your patience when you meet the wrong type. You have to keep getting back on the horse and re-applying yourself out there. I'm not surprised. My 'Nice Girl' lives in the 'Big Mitten' as well. You guys up there are lucky. Down here in the 'Big Triangle' there aren't too many 'Nice Girls'. In the northern part many of them are hung up on careers, fashion, lousy teevee shows, and lots of personal drama. In the southern part they want deadbeat guys who will beat them up and run around on them with cheap barwhores. That's why I like the Midwest - best women all around.
sadfish Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Where I live, intelligent, well balanced, or "nice" women ar invariably married or in stable relationships. Women who are not in relationships tend to be 1) Hot and will only date guys they think are hot, 2) Angry and distrustful of men, 3) boring and asexual, or 4) fat and/or unattractive. "Nice" has nothing to do with it. Ahhh yes, cos "fat" girls (or guys for that matter) don't deserve love or could possibly give love, let alone be a fantastic girlfriend or mate... PLEASE! I'm so sick of men judging women by their size! If men weren't so into the outside most of us would probably be in happy relationships...period! Now i'm not saying women aren't judgemental either, but we don't base EVERYTHING on the physical like men *seem* to do... grr!
Pyro Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I'm not surprised. My 'Nice Girl' lives in the 'Big Mitten' as well. You guys up there are lucky. Down here in the 'Big Triangle' there aren't too many 'Nice Girls'. In the northern part many of them are hung up on careers, fashion, lousy teevee shows, and lots of personal drama. In the southern part they want deadbeat guys who will beat them up and run around on them with cheap barwhores. That's why I like the Midwest - best women all around. Don't get me wrong, my state has all of those negative flaws as well. You just have to learn how to avoid those type. It took me many years but I think that I have the hang of it.
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