stanchain Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 Now we broke up three weeks ago, since then we have done everything to try and hurt one another. From me telling her not to worry about my son (her stepson), cause he already has a mom. To her telling me she has a man already. It had gotten really bad. Then today I lost my cool. I mean I exploded. I told her I was tired of her taking advantage of my love, that she was a f--king b--th for blaming us breaking up because of my son... I mean I really lost it and then hung up on her. Well she called back a little while later and we started going right back at it (this is the first time in 3 years i lost my cool, so I think she was suprised, usually I just ive her everything she wants without argueing). Well midway through it I stopped, and she stopped and I told her it was BS. Just 4 weeks ago we were hugging and kissing talking about having kids and such. We should not be argueing. We should be treating each other with respect and love. Like friends would. Her whole attitude changed....She apologized, and so did I. For the things we have said and done to hurt one another. Ok from that hour long conversation until now, she has called me like 5-6 times. The last time she called because I fish I bought her for our one year anniversary died. When I gave it to her I said it was a symbol of our love, that as long as that fish was alive then our love would not die. So she was sad and said she was going to go get another one tomorrow because she was so sad. And then she said that I could go get her one so that what it has the same meaning because she doesnt want our love to die. I DONT GET IT!!!! What changed her so quick. Now she talks about she hopes that one day we can sit down and work out the problems that we had. Now here is the catch.... she has been being friends with this guy from work for the last 2 weeks. Now she has said time and time again (except that once to piss me off) that he is just a friend. That there is nothing going on intimately between them. She did admit that he wants more but she told him that she needs time to get over this before she can even think about being in another relationship. Now I pretty much believe her because I mean he is 17, and she said he is mature for his age... but is still really imature. Plus she has always dated older guys... I mean I am 29 and she is 21. But she still is kicking it with him. Like tonight she said she was going to be going over to his house to watch movies with his family. I mean he is 17 and lives with is folks... how freaky can ya get with parents in the other room? So anyway... what should I believe? I think she is being honest... but it is still hard because well sometimes people do lie.
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