loveinlife Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 Hello everyone! I am ussually in the coping section and am just recently started hanging out w this woman. I met this girl at a club two weeks ago. She was gorgeous and I say atleast 5-6 guys tried to hit on her. That didn't stop me to approach bc she gave me a few eye contacts and we checked each other out for about 20secs straight. Then i made my move...we talked and talked and i recieved her number. A week later, I called her up and we met again, this time at a different club. She came w some friends and her sister, while i went w a few of my guy friends. She hanged out half the night w her sister and her other guy friends. They were dancing together really freaky, the same way she would dance w me. But she gave me more attention and each times she sees me, she stops dancing w her guy friend and comes to me and wraps her body all over me. We were so intimate, a lot of people were checking us out. I bought her a few drinks and had an awesome chat. At the end of the night, she kissed me and we started kissing in front of her sister and the other guy friends(who stood staring at me w angry look). I guess i felt pretty good bc she treated me special and the other guys didn't get anything. Seemed like she did it in a way where it was telling the others guys to back off bc she is interested in me and also letting other girls know that i am hers. Well, she said a few things, like she thinks im cute, gave me undivided attention, and kissed me in front of so many ppl at a club she ussually goes to, including her sis and other guy friends. However, I am not sure what type of girl she is...I go clubbing a lot and i know there are lots of ppl who are just out there to have fun. A day later, i messaged her and told her that I had lots of fun...her reply back was she felt the same and wants to get together soon. I am starting to have some feelings of liking this really attractive girl ever since we kissed, but I am just not sure if this girl likes me...or is she just playing. She looks innocent, but looks can be decieving. THanks for listening, perhaps I am thinking too much too soon. Thanks everyone! Good luck on your dates!
Krytellan Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I would be inclined to try to hang out with her outside of the bar scene. It's much easier to get a feel for someone when doing real life things. However, always be skeptical of those you meet clubbing. Both women and men can be very evil and very deceitful. Dont give too much of yourself until she has made an attempt to come to you a bit.
Author loveinlife Posted December 6, 2006 Author Posted December 6, 2006 Thanks for the heads up krytel. I will watch for myself. I exactly know what you are talking about. Best to take things slow and be careful.
Lauriebell82 Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 well i know girls like this. it all depends on what kind of relationship u want to have with this girl. if u want to actually start dating this girl u might want to hang out with her outside the club. but be careful cause if she is a clubbing girl and likes to dance freaky with people, chances are she might not want a boyfriend or give up her clubbing lifestyle. ask her out on an actual date and see how it goes. be cautious and think and take things slow.
ashlei171 Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 I totally agree... you should ask her on a real date... Im going through a simalir situation... but i want to go on a date and I am trying to get him to ask me.. so i think for me.. you should ask her out... besides meeting her at a bar... and as for the whole... What kind of girl is she.. maybe she doesnt really go out that much but you just caught her when she was.... and she really could be a sweet girl... its at least worth the shot.. at least i think !!! Good luck..
Guest Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 Thanks Laurie and Ashlei! I agree w both of you on asking her out on a real date. I will do that this weekend and try to have some alone time w her and try to get to know her better. She likes dancing thats for sure and she reminds me a friend(girl) who i have that meets a lot of guys, atleast a new guy every two weeks and have dates or sex with. I hope she is not that type. I am looking for a committed relationship, i know its easy to find girls who just want a one night stand. I don't one of those and never did. I want one of those girls who i can spend some romantic and relaxing time with and just take things easy. *sigh* We will see happens this weekend. Hope we build a good relationship. -loveinlife
Author loveinlife Posted December 12, 2006 Author Posted December 12, 2006 I got to hang out w her last sunday. We went to eat Italian food and we went shopping. I had a few hints that she likes me, like her giggle when she looks away, but she tries to hide that part. At the end we just hugged and nothing intimate like the last time I saw her at the club. She still hangs out w a bunch of guys, but she said she doesn't like them. I am still not sure if she likes me. How do i find out if she does?? Wait for her call? Or just be cool and take things slow...
ashlei171 Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 I think this is a good sign that she didn't just jump your bones... ya know??? Maybe shes trying to show you that she isnt just a skank and she is a sweet girl who wants more than a one nighter.... I think that you should definately take things slow... but do call her.. ya never know maybe shes just shy.... She probably loosens up when she drinks... maybe next time take her out to eat at a place and order a drink so she'll do the same.... DONT GET HER TOTALLY LOADED.... one or two will do just fine to get her to relax around you a little more and maybe not be so nervous... Maybe then shell give you some real clues that she likes you... Oh yeah... did you ask her if she likes those other guys or did she just come out and say .... "i dont like them guys, just so you know?" If she came out with it, she obviously is interested....
Author loveinlife Posted December 12, 2006 Author Posted December 12, 2006 I think this is a good sign that she didn't just jump your bones... ya know??? Maybe shes trying to show you that she isnt just a skank and she is a sweet girl who wants more than a one nighter.... I think that you should definately take things slow... but do call her.. ya never know maybe shes just shy.... She probably loosens up when she drinks... maybe next time take her out to eat at a place and order a drink so she'll do the same.... DONT GET HER TOTALLY LOADED.... one or two will do just fine to get her to relax around you a little more and maybe not be so nervous... Maybe then shell give you some real clues that she likes you... Oh yeah... did you ask her if she likes those other guys or did she just come out and say .... "i dont like them guys, just so you know?" If she came out with it, she obviously is interested.... Yes Ashlei, your right about her just jumping into my bones! I know what you mean. Im not sure if she is shy, she doesn't look like it that much, but i should take things slow. I didn't ask her about those guys, we were just talking about how her sister likes one of them and she said she doesn't like any of them out of nowhere. I was surprised bc i didn't even ask her, she was kinda opening up her love life to me and also told me that she just broke up w this guy 3 weeks ago and would like to take things slow bc her past relationships started too quick and they never ended w good results. Thanks for the response back Ashlei, *sigh*, atleast i don't have to think too much.
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