leaving soon, should i just forget her?

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Iam living in asia now, and i met one gal few monts ago. Since the first time i met her, i liked her. She is intelligent, she knows what she wants in her life, repsonsible in her job, open minded , nice and pretty.

 

She is an asian but not boring or too conservative, i guess it is because she had travelled alot . I have good feeling towards her, and she could mingle with my italian buddies and she could fit wherever i brought her to. She even speaks italian, eventhough simple and bit and pieces.

 

the problem is i am leaving in 1 month. and to be frank, i dont know if i will be back to asia again. I am going to NY and i dont know if i should keep on meeting her or just forget her. i feel something for her but I dont want to hurt her, i always like her and i know she does too.

 

I missed her for many times but i dont know if i should see her or just forget her and be nasty or act like an ******* to her to put her down so she wont like me anymore ?

NY and this place is about 12-10 hrs difference. So it is gonna be hard if i am with her.I found it is really sweet with her..

what would you do if you were me ?

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Iam living in asia now, and i met one gal few monts ago. Since the first time i met her, i liked her. She is intelligent, she knows what she wants in her life, repsonsible in her job, open minded , nice and pretty.

 

She is an asian but not boring or too conservative, i guess it is because she had travelled alot . I have good feeling towards her, and she could mingle with my italian buddies and she could fit wherever i brought her to. She even speaks italian, eventhough simple and bit and pieces.

 

the problem is i am leaving in 1 month. and to be frank, i dont know if i will be back to asia again. I am going to NY and i dont know if i should keep on meeting her or just forget her. i feel something for her but I dont want to hurt her, i always like her and i know she does too.

 

I missed her for many times but i dont know if i should see her or just forget her and be nasty or act like an ******* to her to put her down so she wont like me anymore ?

NY and this place is about 12-10 hrs difference. So it is gonna be hard if i am with her.I found it is really sweet with her..

what would you do if you were me ?

 

she sounded nice girl and it is not easy to find someone who is nice and you really like plu you are happy with as well. My opinion, if you dont think of being with her or trying a LDR then you should not make her life more difficult.She likes you and she has feeling for you .

 

I had a crush with someone who was leaving , and it was so hard since we had sweet memories and we were pretty with happy each other . i was drinking often when he was about leaving, just to get over it.

 

maybe just be friends with her and keep in touch.. if she is the one for you, you will know and everything may work together. somehow i believe in fate or destiny. i know it is pretty frustating...