db1018 Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 Not sure if I should post this here or not but anyways. My husband took his girlfriend to his Mom's house for Thanksgiving, his mom lives four hours away and knew he was coming for dinner, but he never said anything about the OW coming also. My mother-in-law said that she was totally floored when he walked in with her, she did'nt know what to say, she said that it was the most ackward night. She told me how sorry she was that he was doing this to me and my kids, and that she knows first hand how it feels, because my H father did the same to her. She also said she has no idea what he see in her, and that she does not have to execpt her. Me and my H have been together for 19 years, 12 of that married. He moved out Sept 23, and started talking to her Oct 9th somewhere right around there, thats about the time he said that he wanted to file for divorce without even trying to work it out with me, mind you he has not filed as of today. Just to add that weekend of Thanksgiving was his day to see his kids and he blew them of to be with her, mind you he does not have a real place to stay, and only see's his kids every Wed, and every other Sat and that is only for a couple hours. I think that was really the finally straw for me, that I really don't need this crap and I'm so much better off with out him. I got the best out of this whole thing because I have the kdis.
Author db1018 Posted December 5, 2006 Author Posted December 5, 2006 Just to add also my husband has 4 sisters that are married, and man are they pissed off at him for everything he has done, so I wish both of them the best of luck at any future family gatherings, if they even make it that long..
LakesideDream Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 I understand. Same thing happened to me six years ago. It's not easy. While I don't believe someone who was f***ed over in a long marriage ever "gets over it" it is possible to live through it, and come out the other side. Good Luck.
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