ninga317 Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 hi everybody, i've been reading here for a long time but never posted. my boyfriend and i broke up 8 days ago and i't been pure hell for me. he broke up with me for the second time in a year and a half. both times it has been out of the blue, leaving me hanging, wondering what the hell happened. he told me that he wasn't in love with me anymore. as soon as he said that i went into strict nc. i mean what really is there to say after someone says that to you. he has contacted me a couple of times to (once to come and get some of his work paperwork and anther time he just showed up to bring me the money that he owed me). well he just called today and i didn't answer. he left a message saying to please call him. i know that he just wants to know when he can come and get his stuff, but i'm not ready to see him or deal with watching him pack up all his stuff (which will be about 3 carloads worth). shortly after he called, my girlfriend called him (they have always stayed in contact on the phone the whole time that we were together) and she called me back and told me what he said. she pretended not to know that we were broken up (she lives about 80 miles away). she said "hey, where have you guys been, i haven't talked to you in a couple of weeks?" well then he proceeds to tell her that we are broken up and that it is for good. then he tells ther that he told me that he wasn't in love with me anymore, then he says "but she knows that's not true" he told her that he misses all the things that we did together. he said that we were fighting too much and that i was too jealous...what a crock of ****. we hardly ever fought and i was the most non-jealous person that he would ever meet. there were a few things toward the last couple of weeks that he did that made me wonder about what he was doing, but i didn't scream and holler, i just brought them up calmly. i guess he sees that as fighting. he is a very hard person to talk to and trying to have a conversation with about anything that is slightly unpleasant is impossible. i know this is long and i'm sorry but i was just wondering what anyone thought about his conversation with my girlfriend. by the way, i am not holding his stuff hostage, i told him he could come and get it at night when all of the nieghbors were'nt watching. he still has my keys. thanks for any input.
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