Pyro Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 ok remind me tomorrow. i don't have time right now. Riiiiight. This confirms that once again you are FOS.
burning 4 revenge Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 There is no set tradition, but girls are usually more in control. So many have guys who want to have relationships with them and guys are less in demand, because women are pickier. Just look around LS. That's why it's the girl who decides on the status more often than not.
alphamale Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 Riiiiight. This confirms that once again you are FOS. ok i'll remind myself you boob
Pyro Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 There is no set tradition, but girls are usually more in control. So many have guys who want to have relationships with them and guys are less in demand, because women are pickier. Just look around LS. That's why it's the girl who decides on the status more often than not. I agree that its more often for women to do it, but its still acceptable for the man to ask.
Pyro Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 ok i'll remind myself you boob I look forward to this. If your studies do end up saying that it is not the mans job to ask about exclusitivity, then I will apologize.
Author Star Gazer Posted December 5, 2006 Author Posted December 5, 2006 Exclusive means you aren't seeing anyone else. "BF-GF" means you are exclusive, plus you're in love and trying to make things work for the future. Thanks, Johan. Any possibility you could elaborate a little more?
silentalways Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 u know what i wish we did n'tmake our lifes so hard when i read that passage about the exclusive and ONS and the hurt u are placintg on yerself is too much...let it go ok...no one is judging...gawd, i felt it - how it was it buffed and set up with ex and bfg like that is ease into it then mocking joke and tears i would hug u let it go ok - past is past as for dating - as soon as i go on that 1st date i don't see anyone else - that's my choice
Author Star Gazer Posted December 13, 2006 Author Posted December 13, 2006 u know what i wish we did n'tmake our lifes so hard when i read that passage about the exclusive and ONS and the hurt u are placintg on yerself is too much...let it go ok...no one is judging...gawd, i felt it - how it was it buffed and set up with ex and bfg like that is ease into it then mocking joke and tears i would hug u let it go ok - past is past as for dating - as soon as i go on that 1st date i don't see anyone else - that's my choice WTF? I don't understand your post at all...
BannaBee57 Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 No one understands his posts Star. I think their might be a translation issue somewhere.
HeadlessZebra Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 No one understands his posts Star. I think their might be a translation issue somewhere. That's not it... there's something psychiatric in nature going on with this individual. I just skimmed all his posts and it's obvious there's some derailment of coherent thought... I'm no psychiatrist but I have read the DSM-IV front to back repeatedly, and it smells like disorganized-type schizophrenia to me. I worry about him. Is he getting help for this?
DanielMadr Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 That's not it... there's something psychiatric in nature going on with this individual. I just skimmed all his posts and it's obvious there's some derailment of coherent thought... I'm no psychiatrist but I have read the DSM-IV front to back repeatedly, and it smells like disorganized-type schizophrenia to me. I worry about him. Is he getting help for this? I think you can see traces of helping hands of Mr. Jack Daniels and Mrs. Mary Jane.
Sevenmack Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 While it's better for the woman to bring it up -- they tend to get scared if the men do it first -- it doesn't matter who brings it up. The real issue is whether either lover is interested in going there. You can usually gauge this beforehand by the amount of time you end up spending together; the more time spent together and the more important the events you're attending together (galas, church and the like), the more likely it's becoming exclusive. If you're wondering whether any of this is happening in you're relationship, it's unlikely that you're even close to becoming exclusive.
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