what do i do next?

[charlesjeon]

this is actually a long story but to save everyone's trouble i'll make it brief. i've "known" this girl for all 4 years of college but just this year we've gotten much closer, we have classes where we sit next to each other and talk. i never knew whether we were going into friend territory or whether something more than that could happen. well, i really liked this girl, she was gorgeous, very intelligent and ambitious. after a while i decided from hints that i interpreted that maybe there could be more so at this party on saturday it was me and a bunch of my friends and random ppl. for no reason at all she ends up showing and i talked to her the entire time (this is probably bc we were the only ppl there sober enough to talk). she is known to be a really good dancer so when a dance song came on everyone encircled her and she was dancing by herself in the middle of the circle. i still cant believe i did this but i ended up getting enough balls in me to walk up to her in front of everyone and just kiss her. i held her face with my hand and i kissed her. it was amazing but before long she pulled away and pushed me off and left. that was saturday. we've had classes everyday this week where i would sit close to her and its been extremely apparent that both of us are avoiding each other's eyes, etc. we havent really talked save for group discussions but even then its nothing personal, its all about the classwork.

 

what do i do next? did i completely f up or is she just expecting me to ask her out next or what? thanks

 

also, what happens if i misinterpreted this entire thing and she really only did like me as a good friend? then what? now its gonna be extremely awkward but i still want to be her friend esp. since shes such a cool person! god this has been bothering me

[tdmce]

I would just say "Hey I'm sorry for kissing you the other night, the last thing I wanted to do was stuff up things between us".

 

She will either say one of two things.

 

"That is okay I didn't mind it, but...." and but but reasons could be many, could be she just felt shy making out in front of all those people and freaked and now she thinks she has scared you off. list could go on here, let her tell you.

 

or something like

 

"I just like you as friends and didn't meant to give you the impression i liked you..."

 

Either way you win both ways, you apologies even though you are not really sorry, makes you seem like you care, gives her the chance to let you know what is going on in her mind.