luvtoto Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 What is one thing about the opposite sex that you had no idea about until you became a member of Loveshack?
magichands Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 That they even EXISTED!!?? It seems that female pink elephants are very, very rare. But I wasn't disappointed.
Ripples Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Ooo! I like that question. For me, I had hoped, but LS confirmed it for me, that men can still love and want (in all ways) their SO even if they look at porn and/or check other women out.
magichands Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 For me, I had hoped, but LS confirmed it for me, that men can still love and want (in all ways) their SO even if they look at porn and/or check other women out. That's a great answer. Now I feel a bit like a dumbarse. Ugh. Okay... I'm over it! :bunny::bunny:
blind_otter Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 THat men are more complicated that I initially assumed. I grew up with all women and my poor dad hiding behind the newspaper so LS has taught me A LOT about the opposite sex. But also made me very very paranoid about infidelity for some reason.
BareGoddess Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 THat men are more complicated that I initially assumed. I grew up with all women and my poor dad hiding behind the newspaper so LS has taught me A LOT about the opposite sex. But also made me very very paranoid about infidelity for some reason. Yeah, it's weird about the infidelity issue. I had no idea it was SO pervasive. I've never been cheated on. Or could it be that I was and never knew? But what I've learned really is how much ALIKE the sexes really are. It's kind of surprised me.
Ripples Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 But also made me very very paranoid about infidelity for some reason. Yeah, it's weird about the infidelity issue. I had no idea it was SO pervasive. I've never been cheated on. Or could it be that I was and never knew? I'm sure it's just the nature of LS, I'm sure that it's not representative of RL. Infidelity has to be the number one issue between couples, so it's going to feature largely on a site that's dedicated to relationships. Do I sound like I'm trying to convince myself?
Author luvtoto Posted December 4, 2006 Author Posted December 4, 2006 THat men are more complicated that I initially assumed. I grew up with all women and my poor dad hiding behind the newspaper so LS has taught me A LOT about the opposite sex. Me, too. I had no idea that men were so deep with their feelings. I seriously thought that they never talked about how they felt. It was an eye-opener.
Woggle Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 It just confirms many of my views about the majority of women. When I look at some of these threads it makes me insecure in my own marriage.
Ripples Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 It just confirms many of my views about the majority of women. When I look at some of these threads it makes me insecure in my own marriage. Can you give examples?
BareGoddess Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 It just confirms many of my views about the majority of women. When I look at some of these threads it makes me insecure in my own marriage. Then stop looking at them. Funny, though but for me personally, coming here and seeing these posts makes me realize how GOOD my marriage really is!
Art_Critic Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Until I came to loveshack I never used the word Ex when referring to old GF's. I always had thought Ex meant ExWife or ExHusband and I had always called my old Gf's exactly that old GF's instead of Ex's. I also learned that Anal sex is liked by more women than I have had experience with
tanbark813 Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 It's already been touched on but I learned that the type of genitals you have is unrelated to how faithful you are.
Woggle Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Can you give examples? When I look at the seperation and divorce forum I wonder when my wife will be the one to walk out on me.
blind_otter Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 I also learned that Anal sex is liked by more women than I have had experience with I don't think it's like women universally like anal, just that certain men have the specific techniques down. (rocco siffredi) :lmao: Although word on the street is the chick that everyone calls "Chilis" in a group of friends I know has what has been referred to by the mens as "anal lips"
tanbark813 Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Although word on the street is the chick that everyone calls "Chilis" in a group of friends I know has what has been referred to by the mens as "anal lips" Those are called butt cheeks, body odor.
Author luvtoto Posted December 4, 2006 Author Posted December 4, 2006 Then stop looking at them. Yea, the minute I see OW or MM in a thread, I get turned off immediately to that post. Brings up too much pain from when I was cheated on.
blind_otter Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Those are called butt cheeks, body odor. Oooooh no, not on "Chilis" - she is apparently the queen of anal sex and has engaged in it to the point of causing her sphincter to resemble a blown out tire. This is just the word on the street, mind you.
tinktronik Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Oooooh no, not on "Chilis" - she is apparently the queen of anal sex and has engaged in it to the point of causing her sphincter to resemble a blown out tire. This is just the word on the street, mind you. Not on Sesame Street it aint' . Oh and what do you expect from a girl named Chillis anyway?
Art_Critic Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 her sphincter to resemble a blown out tire. .......
allina Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 This isn't so much about the opposite sex, but after coming to LS I was shocked to see how many people have been in/are in abusive relationships
Author luvtoto Posted December 4, 2006 Author Posted December 4, 2006 I never realized how many good, single men there are in this world. I used to believe all the good ones were taken. LS has given me hope. I realize now that if I keep looking, I will find that special someone for me. A good balanced, non-needy guy that is just waiting to be found by someone like me.
allina Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 I never realized how many good, single men there are in this world. I used to believe all the good ones were taken. LS has given me hope. I realize now that if I keep looking, I will find that special someone for me. A good balanced, non-needy guy that is just waiting to be found by someone like me. Awww that's really positive and awesome Did you end it with needy guy?
Author luvtoto Posted December 4, 2006 Author Posted December 4, 2006 Awww that's really positive and awesome Did you end it with needy guy? Thanks. I am a pretty positive person generally speaking. I have not ended it with him yet. I know I need to call him about it, instead of emailing him back. Just haven't worked up the courage yet to do that. It's hard to find time to do something, when you don't want to do it in the first place. Kinda like going to the gym to work out.
Frosty the Snowflake Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 I've learned some things about people in general. The issue that stands out most for me is how incredibly insecure a lot of women are. It's shocking to me, frankly. I know there are discussions in the media and elsewhere about self-image but I'm starting to think the whole issue is much more serious than it's generally thought to be. I've also learned that a large number of people will believe what they want to, whether or not there's any logical reason to do it. This baffles me and always will. What's also interesting but in a depressing way is how people are so willing to assume they know what other people are thinking. And how they refuse to believe that they might have misinterpreted somebody else's actions. People seem to think they can read others' minds. Neither logical nor fair. In sum, I see an awful lot of people who cause themselves misery because they insist on believing things that have no factual basis and that are simply not true or real. (And no, this has nothing to do with religion or faith).
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