Author justice Posted December 6, 2006 Author Posted December 6, 2006 No, I didn't write it with any intentions of that kind. I am done with him. I just want to now find some peace in my own right and to go on with a happy, healthy life devoid of the stress and dishonesty. Thanks for your well wishes.
Author justice Posted December 6, 2006 Author Posted December 6, 2006 Thanks I already am becoming alot happier now. Picked out my new residence yesterday. I cannot wait to have a life of my own.
Author justice Posted December 6, 2006 Author Posted December 6, 2006 I'm not going back to him EVER. LOL self punishment is not one of my indulgences. Thanks..
Author justice Posted December 6, 2006 Author Posted December 6, 2006 No this isn't my first go round. LOL I've had to learn to toughen up and be strong all my life. Thank heavens my children are grown and gone.
Walk Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 I was curious what he said in his voice mail to you after he read the letter. You don't have to say. If you don't feel comfortable sharing that, then don't worry about it. But I wondered if he actually understood what you were saying, or if his response was more geared toward himself still.
Author justice Posted December 6, 2006 Author Posted December 6, 2006 He understood everything with crystal clarity. But it was still geared at trying to get me to change my mind and reconcile. I'm not doing that. I've made up my mind and I'm through being miserable. Why go back when it will only return to the same old one sided mess it was? No, I'm out of here, I don't even feel pain anymore.
Freedom Now Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 Justice, That was a wonderful letter. It was just the closure you needed. You are a very brave, strong woman. I admire your strength. Peace to you, my friend. Freedom Now
Author justice Posted December 7, 2006 Author Posted December 7, 2006 Thanks Free, I am finally set free from a prison that was in part, my own doing. Happier and more peaceful than before, I walk forward into a world where the truth matters. Peace~Justice~
Freedom Now Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 Thanks Free, I am finally set free from a prison that was in part, my own doing. Happier and more peaceful than before, I walk forward into a world where the truth matters. Peace~Justice~ Amen, sister. The best is yet to come. Good things will come to you. You are daring to step into the unknown armed with the knowledge that being alone is better than being in a rotten relationship. That takes tremendous strength and fortitude. You are an example to others. Be proud of yourself. There is much to be proud of....
Trialbyfire Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 Well done and enjoy your freedom! You've gone through so much and deserve time for you. What a complete jerk.
rossi Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 Justice, I'm with you in this, you did the right thing. This man will pay very hard all the tears that came out of your eyes, believe me. Next time be more wise about the man that comes to your life, try not to do the same mistake. look for someone with a better mind. You are going to be much better now without him.
Author justice Posted December 8, 2006 Author Posted December 8, 2006 Thanks, though I'm not wanting to get involved with anyone for a very, very long time after this. I've truly learned my lesson and now it's time to work on myself and find out who I am now after this has ended. I don't really want a relationship, I just want to enjoy life unhindered and be able to focus on me for a change, after all for five long years I focused on someone who was not worthy of that sacrifice.
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