Gala Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Does anyone else feel like they think in slow motion when there's attraction involved??? I have been thumping myself on the head for the last two weeks while processing things a guy said when we went out. It was a second date, and I knew he was going through a divorce. On the first date he had played down the level of antagonism that he is currently experiencing with his ex, but truth be told things are terrible - and he is living in a war zone. I was really into the guy...and the evening continued overnight (tho we didn't have sex). When he left in the morning, one of my 1st thoughts was "How can this possibly go well? He's going through hell right now." After initially pursuing me hard he has backed off, and I haven't contacted him. Even with a lot of attraction, I was wary enough after the first date that for a week I actually ruled out seeing him again. Even a few days ago a new realization popped into my head about something he said...and every time this happens I'm saying to myself, "No wonder." But I still feel stupid for letting the evening continue.
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