mcherno Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 I was too good of a friend to this person. co-signing a car for her. she said she would put it in her name in a year. that's coming up in february. now she's buying a house and says to me, that she has to refinance her house, which she hasn't purchased yet, in two years. I feel very used by this person. I don't want to be mean or rude, but come on.
CardPlay3r Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Well what's the problem here...She wants you to co sign for the house too? If she does her payments and you can trust her why not...maybe she has noone else to do that for her.
Author mcherno Posted December 5, 2006 Author Posted December 5, 2006 the problem is she said she would try to put it in her name in a year, and now she's saying that she will not. basically she lied to me. that's the problem.
Author mcherno Posted December 5, 2006 Author Posted December 5, 2006 I'm willing to wait the year as we previously agreed to. it pisses me off that she decides out of hand that, that agreement doesn't suit her. I'm so mad, at me, at her. i never should have done this, i never will again.
che_jesse Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 Have thousands of episodes of Judge Judy thought you nothing? You never give large sums of money to friends, people just take your niceness for granted. I have the same problem, I'm to nice to people, they take advantage of it, then I break of the friendships. I don't even care about the money 90% of the time, its the principle of the matter, I try to not put myself in that situation anymore. I can be really hard to say "NO!" to people you care about but I think its better in the end. For now I guess my advice to you is try to talk to her and explain that this is really upsetting you and why.
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