What do you think this means?

[blon_dee]

Hi all... brief outline - about 8 weeks since i broke up with bf of 5 mths. I broke it off, then regretted it, spent first 4 or 5 wks trying to get him back but he refused.. I eventually accepted that, and agreed with him saying we could keep a friendship.. That was about 2 weeks ago..

Since then, he txt me one night saying "Hi, just drove past"

Have chatted to him numerous times on msn, mostly just chit chat blah blah.. The other night i had a msg on my msn saying something about a big night out. He im'd me saying "Why are you going out tonight" then asked me where i was going... I thought it odd.. Got home at 1 am and he is online, (which is particularly odd, he's never been on at that time of night) pops straight up and says "You're home early" and is asking me about the night etc.. Maybe hes just being friendly? I just find some of the things he has been saying to be a little strange?

[notmakingsense]

I think that he is still thinking of you as more than a friend and is jealous at the thought that you are having a social life without him.

 

You gave him plenty chances to come back after the initial break, so I would not waste too much time with his poking around to see what is up. Continue to go out and even date a little non-seriously. If he has intentions for you, he'll either speak-up about them or will wimp-out and go sulk.

 

I don't believe the "friends" thing works out too well soon after break-ups. If he doesn't come back for you, let the contact drop off and go enjoy those greener pastures!

[blon_dee]

HI. thanks for your reply.. Yeah i think you are right... He was pretty adamant he didn't want to give me another chance a few weeks ago, so now i am trying to move on, if he's really changed his mind i guess he's gonna have to work pretty hard to get my attention. Even though i do miss him... This stuff is hard..... I could just be reading too much into it i guess, though seems a little weird if hes just wanting friendship?