Guest Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Okay the story goes like this. I'm really crazy about this girl, we don't know each other extremely well but have hung out a couple times and I have seen her out many times. Now, when I'm not around I hear from mutual friends that she talks about me a lot, saying how good looking and how nice I am. She has even told one of my friends that If she didn't have a boyfriend then she would want to be with me. There is the problem--she has a boyfriend (who I have never met or even seen out with her). I guess my question is should I take action and pursue her or ... I don't know what to do here any ideas would be great.
ShoeGirl Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 If she has a boyfriend then stay out of it, if you get in the middle of her relationship you will get hurt. Just relax, if things aren't going well with her current bf then she can end that relationship and pursue things with you... but not until then. You are most likely better off not thinking about her and finding another girl. Good luck ~SG
remedylane Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 hey, just wanted to let you know I'm in a somewhat similar situation as you. I've only tried to stay in touch with her and hang out with her whenever she wants. I've tried not to get in the way of her relationship. If anything ever happens between us that would be cool, but I am not going to force anything since she is with her boyfriend. I am not sure what else to do. How crazy are you for this girl?
NARKOSIS Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 im in the same boat. But she's about 70% lesbian, so that puts a whole other twist on things lol Id say just stay your distance (emotionally) and dont force anything. Thats what Im doing. Just continue to be friends and see where it goes. If you're too pushy, she'll get way too confused and probably push you away instead of her bf.
whichwayisup Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 she has a boyfriend but.... There is no but. She has a boyfriend and until they break up, keep your distance. Hate to say it but if it's gonna happen, wait until their relationship ends on it's own. If you interfer (meaning go after her or she cheats on her boyfriend with you) then later IF you two DO end up dating, trust may be questionable. Best to wait and start things off on an honest footing.
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