phoenix21 Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Well, after a few weeks of NC, I contacted my ex to see how she's doing. I also need to get my passport from her for a trip that I'm taking. We talked about how we're doing and we started to talk about the relationship. She told me how she believes that it didn't work out because our families are different and we're different. I just think these are excuses because every family's different and everyone is different. I just don't believe that we're that different when we shared the same likes and interest. The only things that we were different about was the typical things like me liking sports and her liking shopping. The one thing that I agree with her is that the attraction and passion wasn't that high at the beginning of the relationship. I think that was because we were friends first. It's not like love at first sight kinda deal. Sometimes I feel like she's living in a fantasy world expecting her prince charming to come sweep her off her feet. She's seeing someone else. This is the same guy that I believe made her really question our relationship. It upsets me that she's seeing this guy. How could she do this to me? Then she starts asking me if I'm seeing someone else and she even asked me whether or not I've slept with someone else. I didn't answer and it made her assume that I have, but I text her the next morning that I haven't slept with anyone else and if I did, our relationship wouldn't mean anything to me when it means so much more. I'm cutting all ties that we have left like getting her name off the condo. Here's the deal. I know she loves me, but she's not IN LOVE with me. Is it possible to get someone back when they're not in love with you? I know my chances are very slim, but I truly love this girl and it's killing me that i'm not getting a second chance.
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