Just broke up after with my girlfriend after 1.6 years...comments pls

[RyanMA]

I was dating my ex-girlfriend for about 1.6 years. Since the time we started dating she always had a POS ex-boyfriend who couldn't let her go. She seemed totally fine and assured me she was over it. Now heres where the whole story begins.

 

During our 1.6 years of dating a couple of her ex's would talk to her via text messages/calling her. She would text them back saying how much she missed them and even talk to them on the phone. Now all this information she never told me, i would find out by looking at her phone. When first confronted she would deny deny deny then finally admit it and say she was sorry and it would never happen again. Being a forgiving guy i let it go. But the problem is this would happen all through out our relationship at various points. And again, i would find out without her telling me and she would put up the defense mode then finally admit it.

 

She would use the excuse of her ex is putting stuff in her head. I told her your 21 years old no one cant "put" stuff in your head. Well the breaking point was on Thursday when on her myspace she had sent a private message to this kid saying "I tried calling you on thanksgiving and you didn't pick up, i miss hearing the sound of your voice, Love you". Come to find out she had been talking to this kid for 3 weeks without telling me as well as talking to her ex again! So i broke up with her because when we had fights in this relationship it was always about her being dishonest and non trustworthy.

 

This is the email i receive today:

 

Dear Ryan,

 

I understand your emotions and feelings, I have them too. Yes I have been sad but listen I do love you and the emotion is still there and we had some wonderful times together as well as some sh***y f****g times together but like you said, we always got through them. I respect that in a relationship. I cant really explain how I feel right this second, I loved being with you but then again there was a part of me that wanted to go out and party and do my own thing and not have to worry about anything. I sorry, I know that you don't wanna hear that. I'm not saying "im going out banging other dudes" because thats not what its about I just wanted the freedom to do whatever I wanted for some time.

 

I have been in a relationship for a year and half with you.... I just felt like I wanted to get out and party and do my own thing. Yes I am very sad. The things we did, everything was fun but I guess I don't wanna step back into the relationship now. I wanna be your friend and I wanna still be there for you as a friend but I don't want a relationship right now. I am trying to begin my healing and it takes time for both of us. Talking to you just makes it worse and harder so for right now

 

~Jessika~

 

 

It seems to me she was always dishonest and lying and she just can never be trusted.

 

Looking for some comments and thanks in advance.