britbird Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 ended it with bf as he wanted it to be more of a friends with benefits thing (after 6 months) and liked another girl (with her own bf). have done n/c but he rings every week or so and txts. says he only wants fun and i always say no. why won't he take no for an answer?? do miss him and wish he wanted more but i'm not stupid enough to let myself belive that. what to do? cheers.
norajane Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 If he won't take no for an answer, then do not answer his texts at all, not even to say no. Just ignore his texts as though you haven't even received them. Can you block his number from your cell phone? If that's possible, do it - why continue to be insulted by him every week with a booty text?
Wantingtogetitright Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 exactly what norajane the ladybug said. Simply ignore him. Delete the text, don't even reply with a no.
Guest Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 thank you guys. is exactly as i feared and although the rejection is difficult to accept what you advise is the best way. i will never get what i want from him so why should he get what he wants until something better comes along?!
jenniferlm Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Ew. I would simply tell him that you no longer wish him to call or text you. I feel as though he's being really insulting here. I'd be honest with him. Tell him you find him to be obnoxious, rude, and annoying, and you really wish he'd stop calling and texting you because you think he's harrassing you. I'd also tell him you won't be answering any calls or reading any texts from him in the future.
Guest Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 exactly what norajane the ladybug said. Simply ignore him. Delete the text, don't even reply with a no. i have done exactly as u guys advise. had another txt today and simply ignored it. i don't think he deserves any forewarning or explanation. cheers!!
Wantingtogetitright Posted December 6, 2006 Posted December 6, 2006 i have done exactly as u guys advise. had another txt today and simply ignored it. i don't think he deserves any forewarning or explanation. cheers!! good on you!! if you bother to give him an explanation it will just reaffirm to him that he is getting to you. Ignoring him will cause him even more frustration! Ha ha ha just imagine him waiting for his phone to beep with a response etc. Be strong and know that you are worth so much more and one day someone will be in your life that really and truly appreciates you for who you are and will share the same set of values. You don't miss him, you miss what "could have been". He was not giving you what you needed so really there is nothing to miss!
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