db1018 Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Me and my husband have been seperated since Sept. Today I change the password to our cell account and found out the OW cell phone number, he did not start talking to her until Oct 9th, that's about the time he decided he wanted to file for divorce. Doing that today has really set me back. Not sure what I would gain from it, but I don't have anything to lose at this point. She knows he is married and has kids, and is alright with it for now. He won't ever answer his phone when I call him when they are together. So what do you guys and girls think? Call her or not?
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 What do you plan on talking to her about?
Author db1018 Posted December 3, 2006 Author Posted December 3, 2006 Honestly, I would love to say you wh***, do you have any idea what you and my husband have done to me and my kids... But really just want ask if she really is ok dating a married man..
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Your husband probably told her he was separated and had already asked for a divorce, and the OW likely sees no problem with dating a man in that situation. Just out of curiosity, how did the separation come about in the first place? Was it his idea to separate? Are you two living in separate residences?
Author db1018 Posted December 3, 2006 Author Posted December 3, 2006 Your husband probably told her he was separated and had already asked for a divorce, and the OW likely sees no problem with dating a man in that situation. Just out of curiosity, how did the separation come about in the first place? Was it his idea to separate? Are you two living in separate residences? At the time he started talking to her is when he asked for the divorce, he is not planning on filing until Feb. Pretty much both of us decided on the seperation, I never would have in a million years thought this would be my life now. I thought he would leave and realize how much he is missing, but then he started talking to her, she filled the void for him and that pretty much all there is to it. We did not have to many problems, he spent way to much time with his friends, and we never had enough money. All I wanted from him was 2 nights to be with me and the kids and 1 night for us to go out and do something. He does not really have a place to stay, he is staying in between places, I think he is with her more nights then not.
whichwayisup Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 But really just want ask if she really is ok dating a married man.. Obviously she thinks it's OK because she's dating your husband.
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