Pyro Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Absolutely! Thanks for making sure that point was clear Riddler. Anytime. Just say no to jerks.
Storyrider Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 I agree with the other posters that he sounds immature--like he imagined himself in the junior high boys' locker room instead of in bed with a woman. He didn't know how to talk to you, so he just started blurting random crap. This says everything about him and nothing about you.
rglove Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 I just met this guy through my mother and we went on a date for the first time last weekend. Well anyways he has been coming over my house through out the week. I ask him what was his first thought when he seen me he was like wow who is the girl with the big head and that bothered me but I let it pass. Anyways we started to get touchy feely one day and he tells me later on that night I know something you don't know and I'm like what is that and he go tells me that one of my boobs are bigger than the other, so that totally made my self esteem low and he took it lightly and kept on talking like he didn't say anything wrong! I'm like dude what's up with that since we've be talking you have been bashing my looks and mind you I'm not a bad looking girl and he has said that I was pretty but he confuses me when he make little comments like that. We were suppose to go to a friends house this weekend but he cancel because he was going somewhere with his family and told me that this was already planned before he met me. I asked him when are we going out again and he says he doesn't know and I just told him I was leaving out and I haven't heard from him since. Don't let it bother you, I'm known to be one of the nicest, sweetest, and am known to love women, but like Eddie Murphy character in Boomerang "Marcus", I could nitpick if I wanted to, but just cause we might see your physical flaws and some of us who are less tactful might point them out that to you that does not mean me don't like you or find you attractive. It is my feeling that some put too much into what others say and hinge their self esteem on other opinions. That doesn't work for me. If I was like that, people would have destroyed as a child!!!
Author NIKI 28 Posted December 3, 2006 Author Posted December 3, 2006 Hey RGlove I feel you on what you're saying but what's so funny is you said in one of your comments nobody was destroyed from you by their childhood if I makes sense but how do you know that they weren't destroyed. I mean but for him to blurt out that I had a big head and to say the next second that I'm pretty with a nice shape but then turns around and say one tit is bigger than the other I don't get it. My self esteem isn't low but I always get toyed around about the size of my head and the thing is it's always people who have big heads themselves or just straight up ugly that say these lil comments!!! Just on Thursday he was telling me how he likes me but then turns around and do this.
InspectHerGadget Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Stop seeing this guy! Sounds like an idiot.
Antheia Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 I have met lots of guys who say "But I'm so nice, that's why I have no luck with girls...". I went out with a guy like that last week because I do like nice guys. I can see now though why he has problems with girls. First I canceled our date probably more than 6 times (most of those were done at the last minute) and he just wanted to see me again anyway - without a word of standing up for himself. And no, it's not that he really likes me all that much, he is like that with ANY girl. Then, on a "date", he just didn't have one opinion of his own, when we were going to order food and I asked him what is he having, he would go "Umm I dunno". Ditto for movies. Then to plain walking, like I would have to walk in front and lead the way ALL the time. It's obvious that he needs someone to boss him around and dominate him completly. And it's just not me. This was what I meant by weak - although perhaps weak is the wrong word. Lots of nice guys are like this.
Author NIKI 28 Posted December 3, 2006 Author Posted December 3, 2006 Well Ms. Gadget I think I'm doing him a favor by not calling him back because I think he got turned off from my one big Boob I'm sorry but I'm just trying to laugh about this but at the same time I am pissed off with this guy and I dare him come off like this!! Hey Norajane which actress and actors have big heads??
norajane Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Hey Norajane which actress and actors have big heads?? Jessica Simpson, Natalie Portman, Nicole Ritchie, Mischa Barton, Katie Holmes, the Olsen twins, Vanna White, George Clooney, Russell Crowe, Ben Affleck, Tom Cruise, Jack Nicholson, Daniel Day-Lewis, William Shatner, Mel Gibson, Dennis Hopper, Arnold Schwarznegger, Kate Walsh (Addison, on Grey's Anatomy), Sarah Ramirez (Callie, on Grey's Anatomy) - hell, 3/4 of the cast of Grey's Anatomy... Politicians - the entire Kennedy family, the Clintons, Arnold... "It’s called The Big Head Theory of Casting and holds that successful actors’ proportions are different; they are often physically tiny/smallish people with freakishly large heads. The audience's attention is naturally drawn to big eyes and full lips — the repositories, in close-up, of an actor's emotion and articulation. Pretty much any actor worth his salt has a huge head that somehow plays well on celluloid, it makes them very photogenic. It’s something that the audience usually isn’t aware of until someone with a regular/small head comes into frame and then it is really obvious."
Trialbyfire Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 I have met lots of guys who say "But I'm so nice, that's why I have no luck with girls...". I went out with a guy like that last week because I do like nice guys. I can see now though why he has problems with girls. First I canceled our date probably more than 6 times (most of those were done at the last minute) and he just wanted to see me again anyway - without a word of standing up for himself. And no, it's not that he really likes me all that much, he is like that with ANY girl. Then, on a "date", he just didn't have one opinion of his own, when we were going to order food and I asked him what is he having, he would go "Umm I dunno". Ditto for movies. Then to plain walking, like I would have to walk in front and lead the way ALL the time. It's obvious that he needs someone to boss him around and dominate him completly. And it's just not me. This was what I meant by weak - although perhaps weak is the wrong word. Lots of nice guys are like this. But that's my point. A guy who lacks assertiveness doesn't make him nice. It makes him weak. A truly nice guy can be assertive but considerate. Most wishy-washy guys hide behind the veil of being nice when in reality, they don't have a clue what they want or how to go about getting it. For me, a nice guy is one who's considerate of others, not a door mat. It doesn't de-man him. A guy who's considerate, mature, is assertive when it's called for, intelligent and witty, okay, okay, I think I've melted all over the ground now, lol.
alphamale Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Then' date=' on a "date", he just didn't have one opinion of his own, when we were going to order food and I asked him what is he having, he would go "Umm I dunno". Ditto for movies. Then to plain walking, like I would have to walk in front and lead the way ALL the time. It's obvious that he needs someone to boss him around and dominate him completly. And it's just not me. This was what I meant by weak - although perhaps weak is the wrong word. Lots of nice guys are like this.[/quote'] thank you ANTHEIA for that superb example. "It’s called The Big Head Theory of Casting and holds that successful actors’ proportions are different; they are often physically tiny/smallish people with freakishly large heads. The audience's attention is naturally drawn to big eyes and full lips — the repositories, in close-up, of an actor's emotion and articulation. Pretty much any actor worth his salt has a huge head that somehow plays well on celluloid, it makes them very photogenic. It’s something that the audience usually isn’t aware of until someone with a regular/small head comes into frame and then it is really obvious." WTF are you talking about NJ??? This is rediculous!!
norajane Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 WTF are you talking about NJ??? This is rediculous!! I didn't make it up! Go look at those people when they're standing next to someone else - they DO have larger than average heads!
alphamale Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Go look at those people when they're standing next to someone else - they DO have larger than average heads! Their heads aren't bigger silly. They just have nice full heads of hair that some makeup person spent 2 hours doing.
norajane Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Their heads aren't bigger silly. They just have nice full heads of hair that some makeup person spent 2 hours doing. Oh man, google Kate Walsh - her hair is usually flat and straight and her head and face are much larger than everyone else's on that show - and she's the most beautiful, IMO. And Jack Nicholson does NOT have a full head of hair!!! William Shatner kinda does with his piece, but still his head is HUGE.
alphamale Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Oh man, google Kate Walsh - her hair is usually flat and straight and her head and face are much larger than everyone else's on that show - and she's the most beautiful, IMO. And Jack Nicholson does NOT have a full head of hair!!! William Shatner kinda does with his piece, but still his head is HUGE. you're crazy! its just an optical illusion. plus, many actors are in good shape or even really skinny so that makes their head look bigger in proportion to their body. Do you think Queen Latifah's head looks big? Or did Chris Farley's head look big? I think not.
norajane Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Chris Farley did have a big head! So did John Belushi, Elvis, Cary Grant, that red-headed girl on Six Feet Under...
Green Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 women love a curtain type of bad boy. And they usualy wont admit it . I mean asking the women on here to admit or recognize that they date guys who have a bit of ahole in them is like going into a marine platoon and asking anybody whose ever had a gay thought pass through their head to raise their hand ur not going to get it. This girl is still going to like this insulting guy he has her right where he wants her complaining to people like us and waiting so eagerly for the next time he will bless her with his ahole prescence, she'll probably make out with him maybe more and still be complaining about what a jerk he is
alphamale Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 women love a curtain type of bad boy. And they usualy wont admit it . I mean asking the women on here to admit or recognize that they date guys who have a bit of ahole in them is like going into a marine platoon and asking anybody whose ever had a gay thought pass through their head to raise their hand ur not going to get it. This girl is still going to like this insulting guy he has her right where he wants her complaining to people like us and waiting so eagerly for the next time he will bless her with his ahole prescence, she'll probably make out with him maybe more and still be complaining about what a jerk he is superb analysis KMT
Pyro Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 women love a curtain type of bad boy. And they usualy wont admit it . I mean asking the women on here to admit or recognize that they date guys who have a bit of ahole in them is like going into a marine platoon and asking anybody whose ever had a gay thought pass through their head to raise their hand ur not going to get it. This girl is still going to like this insulting guy he has her right where he wants her complaining to people like us and waiting so eagerly for the next time he will bless her with his ahole prescence, she'll probably make out with him maybe more and still be complaining about what a jerk he is :lmao:
Trialbyfire Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 women love a curtain type of bad boy. And they usualy wont admit it . I mean asking the women on here to admit or recognize that they date guys who have a bit of ahole in them is like going into a marine platoon and asking anybody whose ever had a gay thought pass through their head to raise their hand ur not going to get it. This girl is still going to like this insulting guy he has her right where he wants her complaining to people like us and waiting so eagerly for the next time he will bless her with his ahole prescence, she'll probably make out with him maybe more and still be complaining about what a jerk he is We may like to bang them but we don't take them home...
Green Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 We may like to bang them but we don't take them home... in your phantasies youd love to take him home, but in reality he wouldnt want to come home and meet your parents in the sense your talking about. and you'll be banging them as long as they want it, eventualy they'll dump you or you'll dump them because their cheating
Trialbyfire Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 in your phantasies youd love to take him home, but in reality he wouldnt want to come home and meet your parents in the sense your talking about. and you'll be banging them as long as they want it, eventualy they'll dump you or you'll dump them because their cheating Ummm...nope. They're not for taking seriously...
Green Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Ummm...nope. They're not for taking seriously... well then most men dont go into a relationship wanting to get married or be taken home to mom and dad so what about that...
Trialbyfire Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 well then most men dont go into a relationship wanting to get married or be taken home to mom and dad so what about that... Hence why people date...
alphamale Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 We may like to bang them but we don't take them home... trust me TBF...we don't want to meet your parents either
Trialbyfire Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 trust me TBF...we don't want to meet your parents either Alpha, no surprise...
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