Benji86 Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Hey all, you have all given me some good input before, so dont let me down =) So....I was thinking of maybe sending my ex a small little something and a card to wish her a happy holiday. I was thinking of sending her a pack of candy that she really likes, as well as a card....and was going to write something like, "Hope you still like these. Have a good holiday" or something like that. We havent really talked for almost half a year now, and I have been a bit confused in her actions because I believe that she was anonymously hinting things towards me <I posted about that in a previous post, if you really want to check that out ;P>. Do you think this is a bad idea? Thanks all. Hope to hear from you!
whichwayisup Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 If you do it, do it out of kindness and expect nothing back. Meaning, don't be upset if she doesn't call or email you to thank you for the card and candy. I haven't read your previous posts, but you say you two haven't talked in about 6 months, yet you're confused about her actions. (you think she's hinting things towards you? LIke hoping you two will get back together?)
Author Benji86 Posted December 3, 2006 Author Posted December 3, 2006 If you do it, do it out of kindness and expect nothing back. Meaning, don't be upset if she doesn't call or email you to thank you for the card and candy. I haven't read your previous posts, but you say you two haven't talked in about 6 months, yet you're confused about her actions. (you think she's hinting things towards you? LIke hoping you two will get back together?) yeah i know whatyou mean. I just want to do something nice for her, and yunno...just let her know i'm thinking about her. About the whole confusion thing....some strange things started happening a couple weeks back. She used a pretty much terribly poor excuse to talk to me, claiming that i called her, and i know for a fact that i never did such a thing. also, an anonymous person left me a message to read a book in which a woman leaves the love of her life, regrets doing so, and wants him back. and when i asked who wrote it, they said i would see them at our alma mater's homecoming game, and i said i wasnt going, and the person said 'figured, goodbye forever '. It's been a messy situation in my head trying to put things together, but nonetheless interesting.
whichwayisup Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 So it seems she's feeling out the situation, seeing if you're still interested? The thing is, you're wasting time letting it mess you up in the head. Either make a choice - Call her and ask her out again or end it forever (meaning no more thinking of her and wondering this and that.) If you don't do this and let the "game" so to speak go on, you're gonna miss the opportunity to meet someone else. DO you want her back?
Author Benji86 Posted December 3, 2006 Author Posted December 3, 2006 i do...although it scares me but i do. i love this girl and we have been on and off for the past five years, besst of friends and everything...even thought she is the one i want to spend the rest of my life with, but she called things off six months ago, and its been straight NC, not counting the times she pulls those inane attempts at talking with me.
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