daydreamerz Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 Ok, so I met this guy at a concert and he was really drunk but I gave him my phone number. We decided to hang out tomorrow and he texted me several times telling me he'd call to work out the details(as I mentioned in a previous post), and never did until today. He called tonight and asked what I was doing and if I wanted to go to a party. Well, I told him that I was busy tonight and he asked if I still wanted to do something tomorrow and I said yeah so he said he would call me back then. Well, I wanted to know if anyone thought it was weird to invite a girl to a party for the first date. First of all I'm not a big partier at all and I really don't drink very often. I think that he probably is though. I also just feel like I would have felt very awkward in that situation because I would have been nervous as it was being that it was our first date and then being in an environment that I'm just uncomfortable in. I'm worried about what he's going to suggest doing tomorrow night. Ugh, I'm kind of thinking I should back out of the whole thing.
westernxer Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 I don't think he considers this a date. It's just a party, and he'd like to hang out with you there, followed by some action afterward, if you're up to it (if not, oh well... you were just hanging out).
Author daydreamerz Posted December 3, 2006 Author Posted December 3, 2006 I don't think he considers this a date. It's just a party, and he'd like to hang out with you there, followed by some action afterward, if you're up to it (if not, oh well... you were just hanging out). Thank you, I think I needed to hear that. I pretty much have made up my mind that I'm not even going to answer the phone if he calls tomorrow. I agree with you that he doesn't consider this a date and is just looking to hook up and that is definitely not what I'm looking for. The only reason that I'm hesitant about completely blowing him off is that I always feel like I don't take enough chances in life and what if he is a really nice guy, but I also can see that most likely I'll regret it if I go out with him and be put in a very uncomfortable position.
Waldin Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 party is a party date is a date... party is not a date party is you can enjoy with talk to old friend and see other friends.... date is a people want to know each other... be side love date who wanna date with me.. lol
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