vlhs004 Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. . when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone this is her latest message hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!! <3 (name) i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking this is the latest message i just got tonight heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! she just sent me another one also that said shes not trying to stalk me or be mean she just wants to see how im doing and how schools going and stuff. . now these last 2 messages were 2 days apart . .. so do u think she is really just trying to see how im doing if she is contacting me this much almost stalkerish . .or is that just what she wants? Link to post Share on other sites
Winfield Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 What is she thinking? Nobody knows the exact answer to that except for her...so why not ask her straight? If she had any sense, she'd understand that, by not responding, you don't want to communicate with her... If you're 100% sure you're over her, respond to just one of her messages - tell her that she's freaking you out and you'd appreciate she didn't contact you again...and if she doesn't like the idea of that, tell her you'll see a lawyer about taking matters futher with regard to harrassment... ...a win / win recipe for you to enjoy a peaceful life! Link to post Share on other sites
My Fair Katie Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 Can you block people from texting/calling you? I'd look into that. Link to post Share on other sites
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