Mydish1 Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 So I was on campus today handling some registration issues for classes. And guess who I saw? We saw each other, i gave her a smile and said "hey, what you been up to?" When she saw me she stopped, paused from walking and gave me a sharp look with a smile. It was so sudden, but she said she had to go to her locker upstairs. I didnt give it much thought so i let her go since i had business to attend to and she didnt seem like she wanted to talk. She avoids me online and avoids me in real life...I'm over her but why does my gut tell me she's avoiding me because she isn't over me...or it's hard for her to accept a friendship with me.. After all we've been through, at the very least we can try to be friends?
Winfield Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 You're reading way too much into this - what did you expect she'd do? At least she acknowledged you... From what you've written, I think your "gut" is telling you you're not as over her as you think, by still thinking she's got feelings for you...but her actions when you met (ie, making an excuse to get away) now indicate that is definitely not the case... It was one of those times when she couldn't not see you, so, she had to deal with the situation (ie, acknowledge you) at short notice... Seeing an ex is awkward, and yes, situations such as these are still awkward after you're both over each other. As for the online contact, etc - delete her - her real life actions clearly indicate that she's not interested any more, for either relationship or friend purposes.
Author Mydish1 Posted December 3, 2006 Author Posted December 3, 2006 you're probably right. What i do have to say is many of my scenarios i find these women to be the selfish ones. It's OK and even natural to be friends with me as long as they know I like them (more than a friend). However if the table turns and I want to be just friends with no intention of wanting to get into their pants, they just back off. That's the funny thing about being opposite sex friends. Either someone finds you interesting enough to be their friend, either they are, or they're so interested they want to get into your pants.
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