Guest Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 Well, I dont know if I will consider it depression but I think unbelievably high about this girl. I see myself having fun with her, and she would be a great time; yet, I dont really know how to approach her. I used to send her a few messages on myspace, and such, just to hopefully break the ice on there a little bit, but they didnt amount to much. Whenever I see her in the hallway now, if I do see her, we normally smile at each other. Yet, I dont know if its a "im being nice smile", or a "im kinda interested" smile. I think I see her looking in my general direction every once in a while, or maybe I am just imagining this in an attempt to see possible interest. I have never felt this way about a girl, it has just never happened before, and I would literally do anything to get her. I am a shy individual, and we never really talked. Yet, I feel as if I would jump in front of a bullet for her, why is this? I have many times tried to forget her, tried to avoid her so I wont notice how gorgeous she is. Yet it never works, I still end up thinking about her. I am tired of this. I am tired of feeling this way for a girl that I have no idea if she is interested. I am tired of chasing the end of a rainbow, never knowing if it is there or not. Yet, I dont wish to be rejected, I have been told that I am a good looking guy, I am athletic, 6'2", 170 lbs. But, I am not one to take risks. What should I do to get her attention? How should I approach her? Hell, I have even devoted myself to lifting and drinking protein shakes, just for HER. I dont feel as if I am doing it for my well-being, whenever I drink a shake or lift. I think "this is for her, maybe it will go in my favor, maybe she will like me". In the end, I have friends who would be willing to help me try and get to know her, possible amounting into something I would enjoy. Yet, I have too much of an ego to take advantage of it, and I am too shy. Basically, I want this girl, and if there was a way I could get her, I would do everything in my power. This feeling wont go away, I have waited too long. It is about time I do something, but what shall I do? Is there any suggestions or ANYONE who has gone through something similar? Help me!
Guest Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 So I went to a party this evening, she was there. I said NOTHING to her, absolutly nothing. Obviously there is something wrong, why is it I cannot talk to her. What the hell is wrong with me? She was there, for maybe more than two hours. My friends are a bit more outgoing, but I am shy. What can I do, I am tired of this ****. What can I possibly do to make myself get through the nervousness and talk to her?
sjj1970 Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 You're not going to want to hear this I know but...you have to talk to her, you have to say 'Hi' or this turmoil will never end. Fear of rejection is natural, but if you are rejected at least you'll know where you stand, instead of this purgatory. Is there anyway you can engineer a group outing, you and your mates, her and some friends? Do you have mutual friends? And that doesn't mean get a mate to ask her out for you- that is not a good idea. Can you text her mobile/ post a message somewhere/ leave flowers on her car windscreen? Anything so that she knows they are from you. How about a romantic Christmas card with an oh-so-obvious poem inside?
SmoochieFace Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 How about a romantic Christmas card with an oh-so-obvious poem inside? Stay away from the poetry garbage in the beginning unless you wanna be looked at as a hapless fool. Just talk to her. Nothing mushy or anything.
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