Guest Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 i have what i think is a good relationship with my bf. why does he go a day or 2 without calling me? just to say hi? i mean, i'm trying to figure out if he's playing games. we're both in our mid-20's. i can't understand why he does this! we get along great and he treats me awesome when we're together, but i might go 2 days without so much as getting a call from him! i'm afraid to ask him about it, i don't want to seem pushy or overbearing. we've been together for a month, and have had a wonderful relationship, except for that! what the heck is up with the games??
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 Who is to say he is playing games? He is likely just going about his every day business and doing the things he normally does outside of his relationship with you. It simply may not have occurred to him that you want him to call you every day.
CaliGuy Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 i have what i think is a good relationship with my bf. why does he go a day or 2 without calling me? just to say hi? i mean, i'm trying to figure out if he's playing games. we're both in our mid-20's. i can't understand why he does this! we get along great and he treats me awesome when we're together, but i might go 2 days without so much as getting a call from him! i'm afraid to ask him about it, i don't want to seem pushy or overbearing. we've been together for a month, and have had a wonderful relationship, except for that! what the heck is up with the games?? Have you ever considered the guy MAY have a life and is busy?! My question to you is why do you NEED this guy to call you every day? Don't you have a life too? Co-dependent people complain when they aren't getting enough attention. Sounds like you need to find some new hobbies and hang out with friends more often so that you aren't depending on someone else for your happiness but yourself. You gotta make yourself happy alone or you will never be happy WITH someone. Cheers.
JackEverett25 Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 The guy has a life, plain and simple. On the flip side, how would you like it if he called you everyday, possibly more than once? It may sound good to you now, but in my experience with women, it can kill attraction and project 'neediness'. Plus, not talking everyday amplifies attraction, and in my opinion, makes it more fun.
MikeC Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 I agree with the responses to this post. Having a person call/text several times a day looks obsessive. I personally, would shy away from someone like that.
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