VenusnUranus Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 I've used my anger to shield the pain in my heart for too long not. I hate it when that feeling creeps up and bites me in the ass..... It's been 2 years worth of these emotions consuming me... Bitter and Angry... then Sobbing and crying... and being angry to cover the hurt... But i'm slowly on the road to recovery, i don't think about my ex-husband all the time anymore... His presence in my thoughts is becoming less frequent everyday. I just wish i would have found this site alittle sooner, if i did, i think that i would have saved alot of heart ache and had begun the healing process alot sooner than i did dealing with it on my own. I think that all you people here at LS are great! There are alot of people helping others with support and advice. I have made a great discovery finding this site, and im sure yall will be seing alot of me!
melodymatters Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 Welcome ! We are so glad you joined us ! I had never been a forum user until LS and now I consider it an important part of my day I came here in pain, and now I come here for friendship and to give and recieve support. I'm glad we'll be seeing more of you and that you are feeling better ! Melody
D-Lish Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 I too dealt with a falling apart of my marriage after more than 7 years together. It did take me a good 3 years to get over everything! But it does get easier. Starting over after a divorce is difficult! I found those three years to be a period of great self discovery. I got involved in new things, started a brand new career and eventually found happiness again. I think the most valuable thing I learned was how to be alone again.... without being lonley. Welcome to the forum, it's helped me immensely. D
loveinlife Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 Venus, sorry to hear the pain that you are going through. I have not made that trip myself to be divorced but I have lost someone I truely love. I could try to understand you. Its wonderful that you are feeling so much better. The road to recovery depends on each person, everyone has a different time frame on it. Its been a year for me and i still miss my ex a lot. I get these up and down days frequently. But today i feel great like you. Hope to hear from you soon. Looks like you are doing very well. Keep it up!
bchlvr Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 Welcome! I think there is a lot of collective wisdom on this site. Please post share your experience and perspective. Anger and bitterness is a great topic. It's encouraging that you are finding ways to work through it, that you're no longer stuck. I'm sure many can benefit from your experience.
Author VenusnUranus Posted December 4, 2006 Author Posted December 4, 2006 Welcome ! We are so glad you joined us ! I had never been a forum user until LS and now I consider it an important part of my day I came here in pain, and now I come here for friendship and to give and recieve support. I'm glad we'll be seeing more of you and that you are feeling better ! Melody Hi Melody, Thanks for the welcome Today is a much better day!
Author VenusnUranus Posted December 4, 2006 Author Posted December 4, 2006 Venus, sorry to hear the pain that you are going through. I have not made that trip myself to be divorced but I have lost someone I truely love. I could try to understand you. Its wonderful that you are feeling so much better. The road to recovery depends on each person, everyone has a different time frame on it. Its been a year for me and i still miss my ex a lot. I get these up and down days frequently. But today i feel great like you. Hope to hear from you soon. Looks like you are doing very well. Keep it up! Thanks for you sweet words loveinlife Things are slowly staring to look up in my life, i am healing and moving on. Heck i even find my eyes wandering and checking out men! When i realized i was doing this, i realized how far i've come from the horrible mess i was at this time last year.... it felt great to make such an uplifting realization . Life is getting better!!!
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