ughh i cant tell if he likes me!!

[missmebaby]

ok well 2 nights ago i had a date with this really great guy i met at a bar like a week ago. he was a bouncer there and i talked to him and he asked me for my number. he called me the next day and asked if i wanted to go out on a date in a couple days. so we went out to dinner and a movie. at first it was awkward and i didnt think he liked me. i mean he was asking all about me and my family and he seemed interested in me but i just didnt feel a connection. as i learned more about him throughout the night i started to like him more and more. he is a very good looking, polite, well dressed, nice guy. as we sat through the movie we got more comfortable with each other and i could start to tell that he liked me. he was teasing me and touching me and we were laughing and having a good time. when he dropped me off he hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek and i think he tried to give me a real kiss but im pretty shy about that kind of stuff and i just turned away and said thank you for tonight. he text messaged me later asking me if i had a good time. i said i did and that we should hang out again sometime. he said we should definitely hang out again and thanks for coming out.

 

he then called me the next night and asked me to go out to lunch the next day. well i just got back from my lunch date with him. now im really confused and i cant tell how he feels about me. things just seemed a lil more awkward today and we didnt talk or laugh as much. he did say he was really hungover from last night and that he had a bad headache and was going to go home and sleep the rest of the day. we had lunch and only sat and talked afterwards for like 10 minutes and then he wanted to leave. he didnt ask me to do anything else, he just dropped me off at my house. but on the way home he did ask me when i was taking him 4-wheeling like i promised and he said i would look really cute in 4-wheeling gear. and while we were eating he said in a month his friend was ordering this fight that i would like to see and he said i should come to his friend's house and watch it. but then when i got out of his truck i hugged him but i didnt get a kiss or anything from him and i turned to actually kiss him this time but he didnt try to kiss me. it was very awkward. then he just said "well ill probly see you guys tomorrow night." (me and some friends are going to the bar where he works tomorrow night.) he didnt say ill call you or anything and he didnt text message me when he got home like he did the other night.

 

i know im going to be in a bad mood for the rest of the day because im thinking about this. he just seems like the most amazing guy ive ever met and i couldnt believe he actually liked me and wanted another date with me. ive been having a hard time getting over my ex and part of the reason was because i didnt think i could ever find anyone better and this guy is WAY better. and it sucks to think he might not be interested anymore. now i feel like he doesnt think i looked attractive today or he thought i acted weird or i made things too awkward. maybe he just acted different because he was hungover and didnt feel good. what are some opinions on this? does it sound like hes interested? am i expecting too much? is there something i can do to let him know i like him and see if he likes me in return?

[josy]

Maybe he has just had a rough day. Perhaps things are on his mind.

Let it flow and grow.