sacamano Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 My girlfriend and I broke up about a month ago. I was a little upset over the breakup however she was VERY upset. The breakup was nasty…. she punched me, threw my clothes out the door, broke my cell phone, tried to smash my laptop and made a very nasty comment about my sister who passed away tragically in a car accident exactly 13 months to the day of the breakup. I did absolutely nothing to her! So I got the hell out of there, rented a hotel room and stayed away from her. She kept calling and calling…I did not answer any of her calls. She even called my mother. A week after the breakup I get this legal summons at work stating that I can’t contact her in any way and must stay 100 yards away from her. I was shocked!!!! So I went to the court hearing on Monday and she lied told the judge I said if she went anywhere near me I was going to hurt her. And that I made all these threatening phone calls. I did none of it. Then denied doing any of the things she did and had the neighbor who witnessed everything say she did not see my X do anything. The judge passed this legal document and now there are all these ramifications. Not to mention the grand I paid for my attorney. (Who by the way had no clue what she was doing.) Plus I am not supposed to speak to any of our mutual friends. The whole thing is just crazy…it’s like I entered the freaking twilight zone. I am in shock and just don’t know what to do…plus the worst thing is I cant get it out of my head. I mean I literally think about it 24/7. At the moment I am literally considering staying single for the rest of my life. Does anyone have any advice???
slave2love Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 Wow I feel for you what a horrible thing for her to do to you! Sounds like she had a lot of "issues" to begin with. No matter how bad the break up is no one deserves what she put you through. I have a cousin who is going through something similar with his soon to be ex Wife. She's literally crazy but she's a doctor so we are all finding out that the M.D. behind her name gives her power and respect that she doesn't deserve. I've watched my cousin go through hell and back because of this crazy b*tch! She had him arrested from his own home...just showed up one night with the police and told them he was harassing her (she has a PPO against him) he had not seen her in months...not even in court! The police arrested him anyway...he spent the night in jail for NOTHING!!! He was at home minding his own business!!! While he was in jail she went through the house (his house not hers) and took his electronics (he had them for years before he even met her) and a ton of his business documents (none of them had anything to do with her). Can you say psycho? First take a deep breath and count your lucky stars that you didn't end up marrying this girl! Second...do every thing you can to clear your reputation legally. Do you have phone records that indicate how many times she has called to "harass" you? Your phone bill would also reflect that you have not called her. Has she sent you nasty..threatening emails? Print them...take pictures of any damage she caused to your belongings. I say slap a PPO on her ass too! It totally pisses me off when innocent people get the shaft because some insane chick went off her rocker! Don't let this distroy you...let your self preservation instinct kick in. Good luck to you and hang in there! S2L
stanchain Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 Stay single... I am just going through a painful break up and the thing about it is she doesnt care less. I mean we broke up cool, no problems... but I treated her like a queen.. Why did she leave. Because I worked too much and because i have a kid from a previous relationship... either way it goes bro us guys get the short end of the stick. Move on and enjoy the wonderful world of different women every night...
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