Guest Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 I've been seeing this guy for a while.. but we've done the deed; on many occasions. I never wanted to started it out like this - we were on talking terms in the beginning; getting to know each other..etc. etc. Then one night we ended up having sex. He never took me on another date since then, but came over for more of a booty call. I never wanted it to become base purely on extrodinary sex.. but it seems to be only about that. Am I too late to change course of the relationship, if i wanted something more .. how would I even approach the whole concept since we now barely speak to each other? Should I just discontinue the whole thing without giving an explanation; and hopes he picks up on that?
DRDimeMami Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 Yes, I think you should just discontinue everything with him. You should never be consider just a friend with benefits to a guy. If he really liked you he would have asked you out. Just stop it now before you fall deeper. Something like that happened to me. I met a guy, started talking and get to know each other, hanging out, and then kissing and this and that. I wanted something serious but he kept giving me excuses about him being hurt and not trusting nobody and since then things started going down hill. We stopped talking and all of a sudden he has a new girlfriend. So now I'm doing my own thing. So I just say its better off that you discontinue it.
hindsfeet Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 just tell him straight up when he calls. that you dont wanna be just the friend with benefits. and stick your guns. sex is sex and it is hard not to have sex with someone youve enjoyed it with before. make him spend friend time with you also. if he cant do that, then you dont need it. you deserve more. tell yourself that and believe it. dont settle for anything less than your standard.
Poboy Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 if you are really serious about this guy get in touch with him & go out on a date or something. let him know how you feel about him & that you are looking for more than fwb & then o ahead based on his response... who know he might be intrested too ... give it a try if ya want
Waldin Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 stop before it's to late.. confront her so that you know what feeling is all about.... it's so hard to find a new friend....
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