Guest Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 Hey all, Some of you may remember my story of my ex getting engaged to her old ex 6 weeks after our breakup. Well I just had yet another mention of her name in my life. Long story short, my friend and i are all early 20's. 22-23-24. WE have this order man, 55, that we hang out with at hockey games and he goes to our favorite bar every Monday for drinks and wings. EVERYONE knows this guy as he is just one of those funny old men that is fun to hang with. But he is also our good friend. Tonight he told me my ex, out of nowhere messaged him and said she missed him and hopes to be at (the bar we go to each week for football) soon. I'm not reading a thing into this but once again she just HAS to contact a friend. WHY?? SHe only met this guy cuz of me why tell him she misses him and that she wants to come to MY hangout soon? My friend says she wants to play devils advocate and just contact my friends to make me mad/ But I dunno. I know most of you will say she wanted it to get back to me, but she could have messaged alot closer friends than him to do it. Maybe she was just being nice? I think she hates me and ive put off the vibe that I hate her, even tho Im still messed up over the breakup. SO why would she worry about that stuff, especially while just getting engaged. Her and my friends girlfriends became close during our relationship, after we broke up she gradually stopped calling them, then all the sudden after she got engaged she sent them all messages saying she wanted to get their "girls nights' going again. I dunno. I doubt she's thinking about me or trying to deliberately make me upset or mad, but if she is, she's succeeding. I hate her so much yet still want her. I hate this. anyone with some thoughts??
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