ShadowU12345 Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 Just recently, my girlfriend has been hanging out with my group at school. The only problem here is that everytime I talk to her, she just acts all shy and when I approach her, she runs off. She seems shy but also disrespectful in my opinion. She even interacts with my cousin and his girlfriend at school and acts as though she doesn't even know I'm there. Just a few minutes ago I was told by her close friend that my girlfriend likes me and sorta doesn't at the same time. In this she said that she mainly has me around to have someone to talk to on the phone. This made me feel somewhat furiated inside. If she just likes me for talking on the phone with her then I don't see that as a true relationship. What I need you wonderful people at loveshack to do is to give me your opinion or advice on what I should do as to get her to become more comfortable around me to where she will talk to me in person instead of ignoring just me. I'm seriously the only person that she never has said one word to.
whichwayisup Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 You're her boyfriend, yet she doesn't really talk to you?? Uhmm, this may hurt you abit, but you need to leave her alone. Stop making effort! Don't call her or talk to her. Until she changes her attitude towards you, (which I don't know why she's treating you like crap) stay away from her. How much do you like her? Do you think she's worth fighting for? Just curious...Because if you think you'll be okay if things don't work out, break up with her NOW. Don't know why she's playing this stupid game with you, unless that is what she wants - For you to end with her as she may not have the balls to do it herself.
agnf666 Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 I would take whichwayisup advice. Just leave her alone and see what happens. No matter how shy a person is they can communicate with there boyfriend/girlfriend. Is it worth to go through all of that... I mean if she is running away from you and not talking to you then there is something going on. Either so likes someone else and is not telling you or something.
anna13 Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 that is very strange the way she is acting , I would also agree to leave her alone . in fact ignore her and sit away from her . she is making you feel awkward so turn it around. eventually she should talk to you and when the time comes you may have to tell her that you feel she doesnt want to be with you and you want to end it if that is the case. also ... never discuss your relationship with your girlfriend with anybody but your girlfriend. her girlfriends may have alternative motives and act like they want to help but they may be making things worse. if she is being rude to you then i really think you should turn it around and then end it with her . that will give her the oportunity to talk to you . if she doesnt then you guys should be broken up . good luck I hope whatever happens you are happy. and remember just move on move forward like that one song says "even when all hope is gone , move along , move along , like I know you do".
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