Spinderella Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I have ended things. I dont know how I feel, did I ever?? Maybe I ruined a good thing, maybe I escaped a not so good thing. I feel confused, as usual.
Spinderella Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 I'm feeling extremely low. Would this be normal under the circumstances of losing somebody, even if you werent sure about the person?
fooled Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 Of course it is. You are feeling loss. This person was a part of your life. You gave a part of yourself. No one likes to be hurt - and no decent person likes to hurt someone else. Your feelings are perfectly normal and valid. It is time to focus on yourself.
Spinderella Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 Thankyou very much for your kind reply. Perhaps I should not see him anymore.
MiCorozonPerdidoEnTi Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 When it's over, it's over. It's your life now. Live it like you've always dreamed and never look back. Best wishes! Jim
Spinderella Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 Thankyou Jim, for your inspiring words. I'm feeling the loss very much so, more than I thought I would. Perhaps it is true that he was ok, and I know I did hurt him. I feel quite lonely. It also must be true, that I was not ready. Yes, I made a choice, and I cant look back. Just continue on the path I was on before.
Ssheena Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 You must have given what you decided to do lots of thought before you ended it, correct? Why and how did you come to the conclusion that you did? Write it down and read it. The first time I told my x I thought we shouldn't see each other anymore, I was crushed. I felt like crap, I cried, I was miserable. I thought why should I feel so bad? I had never felt like that when I broke up with someone else before. I knew why I had decided that it was right but it still hurt like hell and it still does. We and maybe you and your x just weren't at the same places in our lives and that in the end, proved to be too big an obsticle for me. Wishing you all the best and sending big hugs.
Spinderella Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Thankyou so much Ssheena. I feel you understand where I am coming from. Not many understand how hard it can be from this side. I long to speak with him, but cannot contact him. If I did it would not be fair to him, and if he were cold to me, or did not answer, I would feel compelled to chase and get back together, I know I would. Yes it is a hard thing to do. I do know that I have made the right decision though. Thanks again. I am going to throw myself into life now so that I can be better prepared if I ever meet somebody again.
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