2001Acura Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Yesterday.........My 40th b.day and what a let down. I had a great celebration w/ the family and all, but after it was all done, how sad and lonely to come home to an empty house and alone! To add to my sadness.....my ex(which is the whole reason I'm here) just set up a new myspace yesterday today to show the world how much she's "In Love" w/ her new boyfriend and his 3 year old son. First, the girl can't hardly type on a computer, let alone set up a myspace acct., but somehow she managed to get it finished just in time for my a surprise b.day present. Coincidence? I checked out her boyfriends myspace account on Sunday (and there was no Ex's myspace), so it's entirely plausible that she could have gotten it set-up on Monday or Tuesday, but there were no posts from friends, etc. before today which leads me to believe it's been set-up in the past few days. We broke up six weeks ago after she told me she thought she may have feelings for someone else. She txt me twice two weeks later to which I didn't respond, but rather called her the next morning and asked politely for her to decipher the txt, since she had written them in code. We had a brief conversation and otherwise it's been NC between both of us since. I told her I was upset/hurt and felt some betrayal the first two weeks of our breakup, but I'd be fine and "wishing her the best" two or three times and let it go. She didn't really understand the "wishing her the best", but I said, "hey you wanna persue a relationship w/ someone else, so I want you to be happy and hope it works out.'' Since her father died in June, we had been on/off a couple times, but she would always call and try to get things worked out w/in a couple weeks because I treated her so well. She'd admit at the time to everyone that she had "life really, really good" with me! On the other hand, when she decided for the 3rd time, she wanted a break (and physically attracted to someone else) I got pissed because of her on-again off-again game playing. I WILL NOT PLAY SECOND TO ANYONE! PERIOD! EITHER YOU WANNA BE WITH ME OR YOU DON'T. THERE'S NO GRAY AREA WITH ME. I have more dignity and self respect than that, but I think she realistically expected me to chase her for a short period of time, which I didn't and still don't do. What should I do as far as my ex? Continue NC and wait for her to make the next move (if ever), since she decided she wanted to persue the other guy and chose to dump me? What a/b the myspace thing? Besides stay away from her myspace! She knows I'm out there ALL the time looking for people I know. Is it logical to think this some type of game to RUB it in my face to show she's now w/ this new guy? Thanks for everyones advice!
Author 2001Acura Posted December 2, 2006 Author Posted December 2, 2006 Bumpity, Bump, Bump, Bump C'mon ya'll!
Ssheena Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 It sure sounds like she isn't coming back - not if she is "in love" with this new guy and his kid. I will say that you handled everything very maturely, wished her well even though your heart was breaking etc. Have you changed your profile on myspace to be actively looking to date? Or added in the who you want to meet section - nice ladies to treat well..etc. As far as the x, that's what she is now and don't give her anymore of your thoughts, time or heart. Her loss!
CaliGuy Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Why do you want this woman back? It seems to me she was never a good fit for you in the first place and you should be glad that it's over. Now, at least, you can focus your attention on someone who is happy to be with you and loves and appreciates you for who you are instead of someone who isn't.
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