82knightrider Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Hi ,1st I gotta say this forum is fantastic!It from a nervous wreck to a somewhat confident man reading and learning from peoples experiences. My girl wants a break right now but says were still together.But im getting these mixed emotions from her and dont know if I should continue to chase her or just move on.I love her and want to be with but I dont know how she feels about me and im affraid if I continue I will be hurt more.Heres the email she wrote, "I Love You with all my heart. I am dedicated to you don't think that we are broken up, WE ARE NOT! This is just necessary for our health. I'll wait for you for as long as it takes. NOthing will change. Just i hope all this problems will. I'm really sad and i feel horrible but its for the best for both of us. Don't worry Ill be ok. Its hard and i know it will be very hard for a while but we have to be strong if we are both WILLING to fight for each other. Just give me the time. I know you need the time. Im not mad. Im just overwhelmed with everything that i have in my head. Im too hurt. But i know i'll get better and so will you. Find something that will distract you. Don't be scared..... your never going to loose me. Just remember that i have been in a situation like this before i met you. Remember i didnt see Steve for months, we were ok and that was just puppy love. For you babe i have true LOVE its so intense its unexplainable. I get butterflies in my tummy every time i touched you even after all this years. I LOVE YOU! So dont worry.Im praying for both of us and ill do it as many times as i can. YOu should do it too. ......I want you to eat and i want you to rest. You need it dont stress too much. I care about you. YOu know it, health is very important because it will keep us strong so we can have strength to keep doing what we have to. FOR each other. I CARE ABOUT YOU so much....think good thing and find motivating things, like music dont listen to sad ones but the kind that will keep you going like for me I have in my head that one song from Safe Ferris>or how ever you spell it ooopsii !!!! that one song its called " THE WORLD IS NEW" its says some thing like... I just close my eyes and think of you and the world is new.. Its cool. because you are the world to me RICo. thats what you are in reality my world my life. Hey thanks for the card its so wonderful. Your so amazing!. Im going to do so much for you too. I cant believe that i didnt do much more but like i said. I want to spend the rest of my life with you babe that there will be years and years and years for us to do thing and surprises for each other. Well babe.. i have to go its late but ill keep in touch when i get the oportunity here, they all go to sleep early. computer is to noisesy I LOVE YOU!!! FOREVER blank..." XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO What do you ladies and gentlmen think?
D-Lish Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Hi ,1st I gotta say this forum is fantastic!It from a nervous wreck to a somewhat confident man reading and learning from peoples experiences. My girl wants a break right now but says were still together.But im getting these mixed emotions from her and dont know if I should continue to chase her or just move on.I love her and want to be with but I dont know how she feels about me and im affraid if I continue I will be hurt more.Heres the email she wrote, "I Love You with all my heart. I am dedicated to you don't think that we are broken up, WE ARE NOT! This is just necessary for our health. I'll wait for you for as long as it takes. NOthing will change. Just i hope all this problems will. I'm really sad and i feel horrible but its for the best for both of us. Don't worry Ill be ok. Its hard and i know it will be very hard for a while but we have to be strong if we are both WILLING to fight for each other. Just give me the time. I know you need the time. Im not mad. Im just overwhelmed with everything that i have in my head. Im too hurt. But i know i'll get better and so will you. Find something that will distract you. Don't be scared..... your never going to loose me. Just remember that i have been in a situation like this before i met you. Remember i didnt see Steve for months, we were ok and that was just puppy love. For you babe i have true LOVE its so intense its unexplainable. I get butterflies in my tummy every time i touched you even after all this years. I LOVE YOU! So dont worry.Im praying for both of us and ill do it as many times as i can. YOu should do it too. ......I want you to eat and i want you to rest. You need it dont stress too much. I care about you. YOu know it, health is very important because it will keep us strong so we can have strength to keep doing what we have to. FOR each other. I CARE ABOUT YOU so much....think good thing and find motivating things, like music dont listen to sad ones but the kind that will keep you going like for me I have in my head that one song from Safe Ferris>or how ever you spell it ooopsii !!!! that one song its called " THE WORLD IS NEW" its says some thing like... I just close my eyes and think of you and the world is new.. Its cool. because you are the world to me RICo. thats what you are in reality my world my life. Hey thanks for the card its so wonderful. Your so amazing!. Im going to do so much for you too. I cant believe that i didnt do much more but like i said. I want to spend the rest of my life with you babe that there will be years and years and years for us to do thing and surprises for each other. Well babe.. i have to go its late but ill keep in touch when i get the oportunity here, they all go to sleep early. computer is to noisesy I LOVE YOU!!! FOREVER blank..." XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO What do you ladies and gentlmen think? Think it sounds like she is telling you exactly what is going on in her head. That she's hurt, a little confused, and just needs a little time to get back on her feet. Not sure what happened to hurt her...you want to elaborate? Whatever you do, don't chase! Just let her have space and wait for her to come to you. The worst thing you could do is to run after her. She loves you, she'll be back. I wouldn't worry. D
ShoeGirl Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Like Dlish said, she is trying to tell you what she is thinking, it probably doesn't make a whole lot of sense to her right now so it is hard to write it down for you, but at least she tried. I am also curious as to what happened that hurt her, and why is she telling you that she will wait for you for as long as it takes? Is there something going on with you as well? Give her some space, maybe you need it too? ~SG
gfto Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 dont know if I should continue to chase her or just move on. Move on. It sounds like this isn't the first time you two have broken up. (To be more accurate, it isn't the first time she has kicked you to the curb.) This is a classic "on again/off again" relationship, which means someone's (she) just not very into the other (you). E-mails don't mean much of anything.
Author 82knightrider Posted December 2, 2006 Author Posted December 2, 2006 She sent me another ,sounds like shes moving on .I havent communicated with her in any way since 3 days ago and Im gonna keep it that way.From all the research I have done here sounds like thats the best thing for me to do.Itll be tough but its gotta be done.Time to better myself . heres the email : Hi my LOVE... .... MY sexy man!!!!! How are you doing... Hope you've been eating and sleeping. I cant help it if your not !! Another night another day, we are going through all this hard hours from not seeing eachother but just to think how close the day that we will be together again keeps me motivated to do good. FOR YOU! I will eat, I should sleep and I will start to exercise because the next time you see me i want to look good and feel better i need to be strong for you. its hard but ill make it because your all i need to feel good.I don't have you here physically, but that's the way get by. Rico we are soul mates, every peace of you and every peace of me belong to each other. Nothing in this world will take our magic that we had together away it may be a little out of control but we will get it together. I LOVE YOU!!! Just think like the saying go's " THOUGH I WALK THROUGH THE VALLEY OF DEATH, I SHALL FEAR NO EVIL FOR I HAVE YOU" I know i cant talk to you every day, and i hope your understanding why. We are going through this process so we wont say the same hurtful things to each other. But don't worry My LOVE FOR YOU IS SO STRONG NOTHING WILL CHANGE> THE ONLY THING THAT HAS CHANGE IS THAT I FEEL EVEN MORE AND MORE IN LOVE WITH YOU, ITS GETTING STRONGER !!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU !!!!!! I don't believe that any body knows the way i feel about you. I LOVE YOU!!! Until we speak to each other again I will email to you when i get the chance because it makes me feel a little better to know we are being connected by written words. This motivates me. I may not have the time all the time to write you a lot but i hope that anything i send you means a lot to you, because even if you just send me a HI ! I will be so happy for many days. There are many thing things that i would like to say to you but i don't know how,YOu have always been so good on saying things, LIKE in YOUR CARD I LOVE IT!!! You are my hero you are going to be the one that saves me. MY HERO. MY LOVE!!!! I have you close to me all the time in my heart and in my mInd....FOREVER!!! I send you a kiss good night through my teddy. Hope you feel it all day XOXOXOXOXo Take good care of yourself every day ____. all the time Can you do it for me, PLEASE?? ILL write again.... I LOVE YOU !!! Forever yours ..... Heres a little background info for those intrested http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t91360/
ShoeGirl Posted December 2, 2006 Posted December 2, 2006 Now that I have read your other thread I think that you need to get out for good. She is probably only taking this break so that she can have fun with other guys and not feel guilty for cheating on you. I know 4 years is a long time but you are far better getting out now than marrying her and finding out in 5 more years that she is still cheating or cheating again. Don't let her do this to you!
Author 82knightrider Posted December 2, 2006 Author Posted December 2, 2006 Now that I have read your other thread I think that you need to get out for good. She is probably only taking this break so that she can have fun with other guys and not feel guilty for cheating on you. I dont understand,how would hooking up with other guys make her feel less guilty? Either way,seems like she is just having me around to fall back on.Her actions are totally different from what she says.So im not gonna buy into her BS anymore.
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