Green Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Like the economy I seem to go through periods of great prosperity when it comes to women and also dry spells where unemployment rate goes up. Ive lived in many countries and experienced many different dating situations and the place I am in now by far has to be one of the hardest places to get women. There are alot of pretty women in my area, heck this area is jam packed full of some of the best looking women I've ever seen but, then again something seems to happen to women when they are out here, so cold sometimes. The social climate isnt something I'm used to. I mean I'm having to relearn and rethink all my tactics for getting women out here. and holey cow when I'm lucky enough to get a women interested in me it just ends up being more head aches lately way to demanding in a confusing get mad at me sort of way. I may have some business to attend to out of town soon so hopefuly that happens because I need a vacation before I snap
someone2 Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 KMT needs a hug /me hugs KMT don't lose hope Keep your spirit up (easier said than done, I know). You will eventually find a good one What is this place you are at, btw? and why is it especially difficult to find singles there?
Author Green Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 thanks someone cares, its the toughest dating seen in the North East United states if you guess the area you'll probably be right. and I'm not saying because of lack of women just because of the way things seem to work out here
alphamale Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 sorry but i can't help in this situation.
Author Green Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 you got nothing to be sorry for alpha I dont really need help I guess, just have to keep playing the game get out of what has turned into a months long slump
Pyro Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I'm with someone2. Don't get discouraged. Rome wasn't built in a day, so you can't expect to meet a good woman right away. The northeast huh? I was up there this past summer, Maine to be exact. It seems more outdoorsey there. Snow should be coming soon. Do you ski or snowboard? Lots of very attractive women are into that.
Author Green Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 I always get paranoid about saying my location but I guess theres enough people that I wont be narrowed in on, and Ive said it b4 I'm on Long Island about 8 miles outside of queens maybe 40 miles away from times square
Pyro Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I always get paranoid about saying my location but I guess theres enough people that I wont be narrowed in on, and Ive said it b4 I'm on Long Island about 8 miles outside of queens maybe 40 miles away from times square I see. There's still plenty to do out there. Ever thought of getting a gym membership or even volunteer somewhere?
someone2 Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I see. There's still plenty to do out there. Ever thought of getting a gym membership or even volunteer somewhere? The Riddler made some good suggestions You should try both, tbh. I will add that your inner thoughts also affect your chances. If you keep thinking negative, you actually lower your chances of meeting someone. If you keep saying "I am in dating hell", this will subconciously affect how you approach women, how you talk to them, and your overall image. Sometimes you can see a good one, but pessimism prevents you from taking any steps forward. You should try more positive thoughts. Think that you are a good person. Think that there must be someone good (several actually) in the area looking for someone just like you. The more you push away negative thoughts and push in positive thought, the higher chance you get meeting more girls. Best of luck to you.
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 sorry but i can't help in this situation. Alpha,
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 you got nothing to be sorry for alpha I dont really need help I guess, just have to keep playing the game get out of what has turned into a months long slump Stud muffin, I think it's the virgin curse..
riobikini Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 KMT: " Like the economy I seem to go through periods of great prosperity when it comes to women ..." Perhaps, if you stopped thinking of women as market commodities.... -Rio
Author Green Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 Great sugestions all of you, I have been wanting to go to the gym more often, and I agree being negative never helped a situation. I think of women more like fish in the sea! j/k
scripter Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I am new to this site and hope to find exciting people to conversate with. I also have my own site for dating which includes free webcam chat. If people are caught being pornographic on the cam they will be banded. It is not to be used in that manner but instead to be used to view the person as they really are before attempting to meet them face to face. http://mypursuit.com
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Great sugestions all of you, I have been wanting to go to the gym more often, and I agree being negative never helped a situation. I think of women more like fish in the sea! j/k What is this KMT(mouth open)Does this mean no stud muffin?
Author Green Posted December 1, 2006 Author Posted December 1, 2006 What is this KMT(mouth open)Does this mean no stud muffin? Dont you wory about a thing I'm still sexy, and I may have met the Virgil to my Dante, I may yet see my fair Beatrice again.
quietintrovertgirl Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 Dont you wory about a thing I'm still sexy, and I may have met the Virgil to my Dante, I may yet see my fair Beatrice again. Yeah!! you tell them baby.Nobody gets my stud muffin down.
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