pricillia Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Apparently us OW's are keeping the mods busy!!! I don't understand why a lot of the threads have gotten deleted lately. I think there is a certain someone who is the reason though!! nice to see you still sticking around still here, how is it going with you?
Author yousaveme Posted December 10, 2006 Author Posted December 10, 2006 Apparently us OW's are keeping the mods busy!!! I don't understand why a lot of the threads have gotten deleted lately. I think there is a certain someone who is the reason though!! YA THINK.....
Author yousaveme Posted December 10, 2006 Author Posted December 10, 2006 I thought that you would know....I was looking for it today and could not find it... More than likely it was reported ....I dont know why...
stillhere Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 nice to see you still sticking around still here, how is it going with you? Everything is great with me!!! I never went far, just watching!! And you? Girl, don't you ever check your PM's???
pricillia Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Everything is great with me!!! I never went far, just watching!! And you? Girl, don't you ever check your PM's??? Just checked PM... I am glad things are great with you! Everything is good here for the most part. I have realized not to expect much from him in certian things so if I do not expect things from him I will not be dissapointed.
stillhere Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 I know what you mean!! I don't expect too much from my MM, and then he goes and does something totally unlike him. And i'm not arguing!!! I'm so in love with him:love: I'm on cloud nine right now!!!
pricillia Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 I know what you mean!! I don't expect too much from my MM, and then he goes and does something totally unlike him. And i'm not arguing!!! I'm so in love with him:love: I'm on cloud nine right now!!! I know how you feel.
stillhere Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 I'm very happy to hear that things are going much better for you!!! ((HUGS)) We deal with difficult situations, but we always manage to get through it! And only we know how much we can take. As long as you're happy, i'm happy for you!
pricillia Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 I'm very happy to hear that things are going much better for you!!! ((HUGS)) We deal with difficult situations, but we always manage to get through it! And only we know how much we can take. As long as you're happy, i'm happy for you! TY, I honestly go back and forth, the other day he had to get his car fixed and he was telling me how pissed off he was about it, and I told him not to let it ruin his day... He told me he that he was not upset about his car but that my vm box on my cell was full and he called me a few times and he could not get a hold of me or leave a message. I heard some honesty in his voice and I think that it made me realize that he has a hard time with this too. Not saying I am any happier w/the situation but I will not end it yet, I was very close to doing so. I also must say that I really do love this place! I get so distracted while I am at work....it is hard to concentrate...
stillhere Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 My MM sounds a lot like yours. When it comes to me, everything is multiplied by 100. If he gets my voicemail and he can't tell me that he loves me and good night, his night is ruined for sure. I can hear it in his voice when he's leaving a VM. I know they love us and that this is difficult for them as well. When you love someone and in a situation like ours, nothing is easy. It's easy to say "then leave" but it's not as easy to do. Even though we wish it too often.
peacelove Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Hi girls. It's me peacelove. I had my bf (mm) join LS but he hasn't checked his email to actually register. I'll get him to do it though. Then he can answer the questions the bs are asking here. Should be interesting.
pricillia Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 My MM sounds a lot like yours. When it comes to me, everything is multiplied by 100. If he gets my voicemail and he can't tell me that he loves me and good night, his night is ruined for sure. I can hear it in his voice when he's leaving a VM. Yes I have had the same experience....I never thought that he would put himself out there like that, but when I walk into the room his eyes light up
Author yousaveme Posted December 10, 2006 Author Posted December 10, 2006 Hi girls. It's me peacelove. I had my bf (mm) join LS but he hasn't checked his email to actually register. I'll get him to do it though. Then he can answer the questions the bs are asking here. Should be interesting. BEWARE.... ( just kidding)
GreenEyedLady Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 P: I know how you feel...but I always talk to mine about it and he always tries to do better...I think it is hard for them, too...I know they (MM) kinda get villanized (is that a word) here; that they're selfish and getting what they want and that is true to a point...but they're also the men who we love and I really believe that they love us back... They just kinda created this situation if you will, and we are left to either deal with it or end it...and I'm not going to end it yet, I think there's still hope...
stillhere Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Mine does sound a lot like yours!! Anyone who watches us closely at work would realize that something is going on between us. Our moods will match. If i'm upset, so is he, and vice versa. He is not the dramatic type, but he easily becomes upset when it concerns me. In a way, i love it cuz i know i'm in his head and that he can't shake me. Which i knew anyways, but it's nice to have it validated with emotions!!
stillhere Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 If there wasn't any hope, we wouldn't be doing what we're doing!!
stillhere Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Hi girls. It's me peacelove. I had my bf (mm) join LS but he hasn't checked his email to actually register. I'll get him to do it though. Then he can answer the questions the bs are asking here. Should be interesting. Are you sure he's ready for that???? Tell him to get out a suit of armor cuz the claws will come out for sure!!
GreenEyedLady Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 If there wasn't any hope, we wouldn't be doing what we're doing!! Ain't that the truth?!
pricillia Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 P: I know how you feel...but I always talk to mine about it and he always tries to do better...I think it is hard for them, too...I know they (MM) kinda get villanized (is that a word) here; that they're selfish and getting what they want and that is true to a point...but they're also the men who we love and I really believe that they love us back... They just kinda created this situation if you will, and we are left to either deal with it or end it...and I'm not going to end it yet, I think there's still hope... There are just so many things that I see in him that I love! I have never felt that way before about a man....
peacelove Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 I know but he's a hard a$$ Italian & can give it right back to em!
stillhere Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 I know but he's a hard a$$ Italian & can give it right back to em! Yup, this should be interesting then!!!!
peacelove Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 I wish I could wake him up so he can get on here NOW. He worked today & is out cold.
Author yousaveme Posted December 10, 2006 Author Posted December 10, 2006 I wish I could wake him up so he can get on here NOW. He worked today & is out cold. Throw a bucket of water on him...You know you secretly want to.
GreenEyedLady Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 There are just so many things that I see in him that I love! I have never felt that way before about a man.... I feel the same about mine...even though he has not so good qualities (lying, cheating) I still see he is a good man and I love the REAL him...it's kind of like when you're dating someone and both of you are pretending that you are really great and have no flaws and then enough time progresses and you start to really get to know the person, not the image that the person is presenting...and I still love him and he still loves me...like I can't sing for s*** and I'm not that organized and I let my laundry pile up in my closet...etc. etc. so on and so forth... I don't know I think I'm rambling...I'm just so darn happy right now...
peacelove Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 I wish I had an air horn. Now that would be too funny.
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