yousaveme Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Where is everyone? It is unbelievable that all the OW feel like the OW forum is a place to get bashed. I use to find this place and somewhat of a support. I might not have like some of the advise that I was given. But it was still advise and there wasnt this nasty bashing going on. NO people might not like my choice in the relationship and it has been very hard for me. The BS has a place to go get advise and support and to vent...We dont go on there and bash the BS. There are a few BS that have been very nice and understanding or try and understand they know who they are. And thank you... OW come back.....PLEASE
peacelove Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Where is everyone? It is unbelievable that all the OW feel like the OW forum is a place to get bashed. I use to find this place and somewhat of a support. I might not have like some of the advise that I was given. But it was still advise and there wasnt this nasty bashing going on. NO people might not like my choice in the relationship and it has been very hard for me. The BS has a place to go get advise and support and to vent...We dont go on there and bash the BS. There are a few BS that have been very nice and understanding or try and understand they know who they are. And thank you... OW come back.....PLEASE Most of us are still here.
Author yousaveme Posted November 29, 2006 Author Posted November 29, 2006 Most of us are still here. I need to be shown..... SO COME BACK EVERYONE:bunny:
herenow Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 I promise I won't bite. The OW are the reason I came here in the first place. Without all of you, there is nothing to be learned. And believe me, you have taught me a lot.
Author yousaveme Posted November 29, 2006 Author Posted November 29, 2006 I promise I won't bite. The OW are the reason I came here in the first place. Without all of you, there is nothing to be learned. And believe me, you have taught me a lot. You have been very nice and understanding and I want to thank you for that... I just want everyone to come back....I am not the only one that feels this way... But thanks again herenow
NearlyThere Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 ..... however, as people have taken the purpose of this forum out of its context, there is no point in posting much just to talk about ones sitch because, I won't say get you get bashed by people but I will say that you now tend to get some vindictive, nasty, spiteful, unhelpful, sarcastic and irrelevant comments instead of either something that is helpful OR constructive critisicm.
Author yousaveme Posted November 29, 2006 Author Posted November 29, 2006 Thats why I think all the OW should come back and lets get back to what this forum was about.
slave2love Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 I'm brand new to this site and these forums but I'm so glad I found all of you. It's nice to have OW to relate too. We aren't bad people, we aren't just out to be a homewrecker...we believe in love and we've all been lied to by MM at some point. The heart wants what the heart wants and only OW can understand being in those shoes.
stillhere Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 I'm StillHere!!! Lol!! I'm here, just lurking in the shadows..............you can still PM me any time!!
Author yousaveme Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 I'm StillHere!!! Lol!! I'm here, just lurking in the shadows..............you can still PM me any time!! Hey there...
ratingsguy Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 How about the OMs?? I see so few on here.
Author yousaveme Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 How about the OMs?? I see so few on here. Your welcome also...Sorry
Can'tGiveUp Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Shhh...don't tell...but I'm still lurking...trying to gain some insight from those brave enough to continue posting.
BenThereDunThat Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I'm still here, reading, lurking ..... I still got y'alls back. Just trying not to come here as much as I was for my own selfish reasons. Got to get my head out from under, ya know? Like I said before though, if anyone thinks that I could be of help, do not hesitate to PM me! Or you don't even have to think I could help, if you just want to sound off. I'm a very good listener!
Can'tGiveUp Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I think you deserve the thanks...there is some comfort in knowing that if I need some help desperately enough to post again, one of you will be there with it... You helped remind us of that!
Author yousaveme Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 Good .... You can always PM me ....
BenThereDunThat Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I promise I won't bite. The OW are the reason I came here in the first place. Without all of you, there is nothing to be learned. And believe me, you have taught me a lot. Herenow...you have got to be one of the most evolved persons I "know." Seriously. You manage to get your point across without being hateful, without being judgmental. From your posts, you seem like a very well-rounded, see the big-picture, kind of person. You, too, have taught me a lot.
GreenEyedLady Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Well, I just couldn't keep from adding to the ROLL CALL! I'm still here! Oh no I'm not, I'm GEL! Hahaha! I crack myself up!
stillhere Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Well, I just couldn't keep from adding to the ROLL CALL! I'm still here! Oh no I'm not, I'm GEL! Hahaha! I crack myself up! Yeah, I'M stillhere..............you're too funny!!!
frannie Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I'm here too. But as others have said... not sharing my story and certainly not asking for 'advice' or comments on my relationship ... people feel the need to give it anyway without being asked
herenow Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Herenow...you have got to be one of the most evolved persons I "know." Seriously. You manage to get your point across without being hateful, without being judgmental. From your posts, you seem like a very well-rounded, see the big-picture, kind of person. You, too, have taught me a lot. Thank you BTDT. I'm not sure how evolved I am, but I'm sure getting older and wiser.
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