missydismay Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 My Lord, where to begin. So, I've been seeing this guy, Ty, for a couple of months. At first, it was a sex thing, because we felt like we were rebounding off of our former relationships. But, heaven forbid! I started to like him. Doesn't that always happen? And, heaven forbid! he started to like me too. I could tell. So, two months after our initial rendezvous, I invited Ty to a pal's wedding last week. Yes, bold, I know. Well, we went, and we had a blast. During the ceremony, he (gasp!) reached over and held my hand. We had a gorgeous time. It was all very mushy and sweet. After the wedding, we went to the bar, where I ran into a couple of old friends. They asked me if we were dating. Before I could reply with my usual change of subject, he butted in with, "Yes, we are." So! Fast forward to last night, at another bar. One of Ty's friends asked him if I was his new girlfriend. He replied with, "Well, we ARE dating." I decided it was due time. For some reason, I want to be his. And all his. We got back to his house, had hot sex with each other, and then he fell asleep. I woke him up, feeling slightly tipsy. (He wasn't drunk at all.) I said, "Ty, I am all yours. Are you all mine?" He says, "Yeah." Starts snoring. I wake him up again. "Ty. I totally want to be your girlfriend." He replies with, "You like me that much? Are you drunk?" Uh oh. "Yes," I respond. "And no, I'm not drunk." He kisses me and then says, "I thought you were my girlfriend already." Then I say, "You like me that much?" (Throw back in his face.) He says, "Yeah." Starts snoring again. So. Obviously, I'm his girlfriend now. But if I'm his girlfriend, why didn't he tell the guy at the bar I was his girlfriend? Freaking weird. Maybe he needed confirmation? I don't know. Guys are bizarre sometimes. Plus, he never calls me. I always call him. Maybe he's just used to it.
aeren944 Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Which "guy at the bar" are you talking about? The one where he replied, "Well, we ARE dating"? In my opinion, that's pretty much saying the same thing as, "Yeah, she's my girlfriend." Maybe he didn't want to freak you out, though. Or maybe he thought he better not use the GF word before talking to you. As far as the calling you thing, I'm guessing he's used to it. Did you call him much before? I know guys get pretty routine when it comes to that sort of thing. If you wanna test that theory, though, you could always not call him and wait for him to call you. *Plink* *Plink*... my two cents
Enema Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 You sound like a big ass ball of crazy, woman. What's his email, I want to drop him a note.
Fire Onyx Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 I think he said "we ARE dating" instead of saying you're his girlfriend most likely because you two never discussed it before. I think now, he'll introduce you as his GF. I'd probably do the same...I'd need confirmation. As for calling...most guys hate talking on the phone. If you want him to call you, just tell him to call you. If you're together, why play games.
Ripples Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Who knows what the situation really is? He was drunk, sleepy and you were too. That's not a good time to have a sensible conversation about anything
Trialbyfire Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Ripples has got it spot on. Talk to him when you're both awake, lol.
littlekitty Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Who knows what the situation really is? He was drunk, sleepy and you were too. That's not a good time to have a sensible conversation about anything The voice of sanity as usual!! To the OP: Sounds good to me...! I think you might have something here!!
typical Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 You sound like a big ass ball of crazy, woman omg:lmao: :lmao:
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