Kellytheidiot Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 I suspect my boyfriend of cheating on me as he did not tell me about another woman he talks to frequently (maybe once a week at most) She happened to call his cell phone when I was with him and when I asked who he'd been talking to he lied to me. Finally he admitted it was a woman he'd known for 3 years. She'd just had a baby in Sept and he'd helped talk her thru some rough times he claims. He said if it makes me feel better, I can talk to her, he will end all contact with her etc. I have even questioned as to whether he is the father of her baby- which he laughs at and says is ridiculous as he says he's never even kissed her. He also says they've never hung out, she's never been to his house (which I believe because he has pictures and my stuff all over his bedroom). he said she just calls him to talk. Also he told me he never told her about me. he says she never asked if he was dating anyone. I find some of this difficult to believe. We'd been together for 2 years on and off but talked every day at least once and he NEVER mentioned her. Can anyone share what you think the most common signs of cheating are? I hadn't noticed any red flags in the past and to my knowledge he's never lied to me about anything else but now I"m not sure. If you've been cheated on now that you look back what were some of the signs?
norajane Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 If he wants you to meet her, I wouldn't expect him to be cheating. Usually the last thing he'd want if he's cheating is for the two of you to meet. I think you should take him up on the offer - maybe she can bring her baby and her H or bf.
Rooster_DAR Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I suspect my boyfriend of cheating on me as he did not tell me about another woman he talks to frequently (maybe once a week at most) She happened to call his cell phone when I was with him and when I asked who he'd been talking to he lied to me. Finally he admitted it was a woman he'd known for 3 years. She'd just had a baby in Sept and he'd helped talk her thru some rough times he claims. He said if it makes me feel better, I can talk to her, he will end all contact with her etc. I have even questioned as to whether he is the father of her baby- which he laughs at and says is ridiculous as he says he's never even kissed her. He also says they've never hung out, she's never been to his house (which I believe because he has pictures and my stuff all over his bedroom). he said she just calls him to talk. Also he told me he never told her about me. he says she never asked if he was dating anyone. I find some of this difficult to believe. We'd been together for 2 years on and off but talked every day at least once and he NEVER mentioned her. Can anyone share what you think the most common signs of cheating are? I hadn't noticed any red flags in the past and to my knowledge he's never lied to me about anything else but now I"m not sure. If you've been cheated on now that you look back what were some of the signs? Do a seach on LS for "signs of cheating". There are many out there and I recently posted one. One of the biggest signs is gut instinct. Usually when something is amiss your gut will tell you. Other signs include deception, sudden change in sexual habits, hiding phone calls, hiding cellphone messages, a general feeling that something isn't right. Good luck!
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