Island Girl Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I know it makes you feel good when guy is all over you. But it doesnt mean it does make you feel good about the guy. When you are with a girl you really like its pretty hard to behave the same way you are talking to your sister. Why? It doesnt work? B/c when you feel he is all over you....you can go after Bigger Fish than him....he is already yours. (It actually suggested Island Girl so dont blame me.) You should copy the entire post Daniel. Otherwise this seems out of context. There was way more to that particular post.
Mary3 Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Dont worry about me, sister. When I give advice I know what Im talking about. Who was talking about 5 days rules? Who was talking about lieing? Who was talking about standing someone up? Certainly not me. Perfect advice. But for guys absolutely useless. They need to know how to get confidence and self control. And after they get it I assure you they wont be calling every day. I know it makes you feel good when guy is all over you. But it doesnt mean it does make you feel good about the guy who does the calling..... Be Yourself? You are absolutely right. But when you are with a girl you really like its pretty hard to behave the same way you are talking to your sister Its a bit problem. You have to be really collected. When you meet some new girl.....dont dare to show a bit of insecurity, neediness or nervousness. Sure if you know each other some time and she knows what you are made of....different story. Alot of hostility behind that cartoon avatar you have , eh ? I'd rather a guy show HIMSELF and not some robot generated guy he thinks he should act like. Show me your sides . Do not fear being HUMAN .
Author DanielMadr Posted March 23, 2007 Author Posted March 23, 2007 You should copy the entire post Daniel. Otherwise this seems out of context. There was way more to that particular post. OK. Sure I know its not that simple. But the Bigger Fish theory struck the nerve. Out of context or out of sense?
Author DanielMadr Posted March 23, 2007 Author Posted March 23, 2007 Alot of hostility behind that cartoon avatar you have , eh ? I'd rather a guy show HIMSELF and not some robot generated guy he thinks he should act like. Show me your sides . Do not fear being HUMAN . Earth is a dangerous place. robot....nice....Look Im trying to come up with some ideas, not a script. If someone decides to act on it, its his problem. When guy here on forum asked about the same thing we debate. What can you tell him? Forget her and find another. Or Dont forget her, stay in contact maybe shell change her mind. Or yeah go for it, sweet talk her to be with you. I believe the second option is not that impossible. When you take the possibilities for Hard to Get behaviour in initial phase, by confident persistance you communicate....Im interested in long term. Im not easily frustrated. Im dont worry about rejection. My personal human opinion.....It sucks to lose a girl, b/c she doesnt give us chance to know each other better. Lifes not simple. Few tries to be sure and time to move on. Night is short and dusk is coming.....better return to coffin. Who said Im human?
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