Shinodasfate Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Hello, I'm new to the thread, I have a question. Recently my boyfriend/fiance broke up with me on the basis that he wants to be alone. I am gay, and he is bisexual. We were together close to a year and we were engaged to be married. Everything was going really well with no signs of problems. We got along really well and we both were in love. I still am. He said after he broke up he still cared for me and loved me, he just wanted to be alone. He was going away into the gaurd until that fell through. after that fell through his excuse changed to he didn't know if he wanted to be with a man or a woman. Having a family wasn't an issue with him. I still love him beyond belief and he still wants to be friends. Said he wouldn't mind if i was his best friend. I can't do that because it causes too much pain. Yet he still takes initiative to talk to me online and see how things are, shows concern about my health. And recently, on the anniversary of our first meeting, he wanted to hang out with me. first it was to dinner. then it turned out to my house to see if the club we met at was open. then we just went ot the local bar for pool. I want him back and he knows this. He avoided contact with me because he thought it would be unfair to me for some reaosn, yet he took this step on a very important date? I need advice what to do. I still need him and can't really function right. Does he want me back or what? Thanks
norajane Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 It sounds like he's uncertain about what he wants out of a partner, and out of life. I don't think he's ready to come back to you, but he does still care about you so he's probably trying to be friendly to make it easier on you. The anniversary stuff was just him trying to make that day less painful for you, maybe? Basically, unless he says he wants to get back together and he's sure about you, he isn't, regardless of what he does.
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