ab avo Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 well i'm new here and need opinions. i'm in a situation most people will find themselves in at least once in their lives...the realm of not knowing whether to call the other person or just move on. so i was with a group of friends when i met this guy, let's call him James. he was with his buddies and to make the story short, all of us talked and there seemed to be that connection between me and him. at the end of the night, he invited me and my friend to his apt but my friend didn't want to go and i wasn't ready to go off by myself with someone i had just met. we said goodbye and i mentioned how i hope we would meet again sometimes. he said the same thing back to me with some long babble. well, in the end he didn't ask for my phone number and i was confused of whether to go ahead and offer him my number or not (this has never happened to me before!!) as i was walking away, i had a remorse and asked my guy friend to run up to him and give him my phone number. my buddy did it pretty smoothly (according to what he told me what he did) and said that James was pretty excited to get my number but he noticed James' friend jotted down my number as well. Somehow, i lost my phone right after i left the bar (but i got it back the next morning) and James happened to call me right after he got my number! he left me a message saying how he would like to hang out with me and that i should call him back tomorrow. a short while later, james' friend called me and left me a message, inviting me to come over to "their apt" and to give him a call and gave me his number. (isn't it kinda messed up). well, i was a bit confused about this whole thing...why did he call me right away and why did his buddy call me too? did he think i was easy and desperate? i discussed this my couple of my guy friends and they told me not to call James. I didn't really believe them but i was so busy the next few days that the next thing i knew three days had passed. i decided to text message James, telling him we should hang out and to call me sometimes. he texted me right back, agreeing and saying he'll call me...well, it's tuesday night and he still hasn't called or texted me. all my friends told me to forget about it since it was kinda weird that he called me as soon as he got my number anyways...still, i'm very curious and need some opinions.
konfuzd Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 I've known guys to call a girl right away. The last guy I went out with sent me a cute little text as I was on my way home. He just wanted to make sure I had his number too, and to make sure I'd given him the right number. I told him he'd have to call to make sure, if nothing else... The strange thing though is that his friend called you as well. Makes me think they're just lookin' for a party girl who might service the both of them. I'd be a bit weary of that. Something seems a bit off, I'd be cautious if I were you.
IpAncA Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Did James know that guy was writting your number down? If so then thats probably not the type of attention that you wanted. I hope. Your guy friends are right. Don't call him. Time to find someone else .
Author ab avo Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 wow...i haven't thought of the possibility of them thinking i was just a party girl at all but i think you might be right. thanks!!
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