freckles73 Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 This is assuming, of course, that you were having a great time on your first date with this woman... and you expressed towards the end of the date that you felt an awesome connection and had an interest in wanting to see her again. How long would you wait to call her?
Pyro Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 This is assuming, of course, that you were having a great time on your first date with this woman... and you expressed towards the end of the date that you felt an awesome connection and had an interest in wanting to see her again. How long would you wait to call her? It depends from person to person. Some people would not want to come off as clingy, so they may wait a while before they call, but in the case that you are speaking of, I would call in the next day or two at the most.
konfuzd Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 If you really like her, and you want to pursue her without the games, drama and BS, call her the next day, or wait one day. The "three day rule" is lame.
Author freckles73 Posted November 29, 2006 Author Posted November 29, 2006 So, if we had a date on Saturday, and it's nearly wednesday, then I should assume he's never going to call? I hate games. I hate dating.
Pyro Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 So, if we had a date on Saturday, and it's nearly wednesday, then I should assume he's never going to call? I hate games. I hate dating. He may still call, but I think that the longer he takes to call, the less interested he is in you, but like I said before, maybe he is just afraid of scaring you off if he calls too soon. I agree about games. Anyone who purposely plays games is not worth the time.
ab avo Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 i'm in a sort of the same situation as freckles73. i was with a group of friends when i met this guy, let's call him James. he was with his buddies and to make the story short, all of us talked and there seemed to be that connection between me and him. at the end of the night, he invited me and my friend to his apt but my friend didn't want to go and i wasn't ready to go off by myself with someone i had just met. we said goodbye and i mentioned how i hope we would meet again sometimes. he said the same thing back to me with some very long babble. well, in the end he didn't ask for my phone number and i was confused of whether to go ahead and offer him my number or not (this has never happened to me before!!) as i was walking away, i had a remorse and asked my guy friend to run up to him and give him my phone number. my buddy did it pretty smoothly (according to what he told me what he did) and said that James was pretty excited to get my number but he noticed James' friend jotted down my number as well. Somehow, i lost my phone right after i left the bar (but i got it back the next morning) and James happened to call me right after he got my number! he left me a message saying how he would like to hang out with me and that i should call him back tomorrow. a short while later, james' friend called me and left me a message, inviting me to come over to "their apt" and to give him a call and gave me his number. (isn't it kinda messed up). well, i was a bit confused about this whole thing...why did he call me right away and why did his buddy call me too? did he think i was easy and desperate? i discussed this my couple of my guy friends and they told me not to call James. I didn't really believe them but i was so busy the next few days that the next thing i knew three days had passed. i decided to text message James, telling him we should hang out and to call me sometimes. he texted me right back, agreeing and saying he'll call me...well, it's tuesday night and he still hasn't called or texted me. all my friends told me to forget about it since it was kinda weird that he called me as soon as he got my number anyways...still, i'm very curious and need some opinions.
Author freckles73 Posted November 29, 2006 Author Posted November 29, 2006 He may still call, but I think that the longer he takes to call, the less interested he is in you, but like I said before, maybe he is just afraid of scaring you off if he calls too soon. I agree about games. Anyone who purposely plays games is not worth the time. Funny. We spent about half an hour talking about how we both hate "games". And low and behold.....surprise, surprise.....more games. Lovely. Dating sucks.
Pyro Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Funny. We spent about half an hour talking about how we both hate "games". And low and behold.....surprise, surprise.....more games. Lovely. Dating sucks. Give him a couple more days. Like I said, maybe he really likes you and he doesn't want to scare you away.
ddnnee Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 you are suppose to call them after a date? didn't know that. but what for?
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