missydismay Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 I disagree with the above comments. I had a boyfriend last year. He was a jerk. This guy came into my place of business and asked me to marry him. Of course I didn't give him my phone number. I had a boyfriend. He came in the next week and told me he was serious about the marriage thing. He bought me a fake pink ring from Wal-Mart and presented it to me. It was the cutest, funniest thing ever. I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend for him a month later and me and Ring Boy had a very long and torrid affair. True story.
Road Rage Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 KMT Maybe you should go in there with a fake pink ring from Walmart and ask her to marry you. It has been know to work before.
alphamale Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 I agree. I, for one, know if I'm interested right away. Interest just doesn't grow on me over time, you know? most females know within 5 minutes of meeting a dude whether they'll date him or not. Yeah, some freak comes to me again after I already rejected him, I'd be like, "What are you, deaf? Did you not hear me the first time?" It would only serve to annoy the crap outta me; whereas the first time it was just a simple, no-hard-feelings rejection, the second time the guy is just really looking to piss me off. There's nothing I hate more than guys who won't take a hint. Lowest of the low. No self-respect. this goes both ways HZ....i've had many women who were interested in me over the years and I knew they were interested and I never did anything because I wasn't interested. Some of them were quite persistent and it really became annoying and made them look desperate.
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Oooohh leave my stud muffin alone.He's just having a bad woman day(sticking out my tongue)
blind_otter Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 dude she already blew you off. you'll just look like a desperate boob if you ask her again. emphasis on "Desperate Boob".
PussInHeels Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 KMT Maybe you should go in there with a fake pink ring from Walmart and ask her to marry you. It has been know to work before. There's a pink one??? I got green.
Author Green Posted November 29, 2006 Author Posted November 29, 2006 I've been known to pull off the imposible with women and I should be aloud a second chance, Now I have to suceed to prove to myself and all you haters that I can do this.
aeren944 Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 KMT More power to ya, dude! You should definately go back in there! I mean, what have you got to lose?? If you freak her out, that's a no... and that's that. Unless, she's got a cute friend that you happen to hook up with down the road... Seriously, though, why worry about freaking her out? Go through with it! The worst that could happen is a rejection. What if she finds your persistance charming? What if she doesn't get freaked out? What if she ws playing coy? You won't know unless you don't try. Plus, that would be a pretty cool story to tell people! Pride aside, you seem like you've got a healthy self-esteem. Just do it!!
Author Green Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 So I went back in and spotted her quick she was walking to the back with some merchandise to stock on the shelf so I walked around the corner where she had gone and she was stocking stuff on the shelf while some guy who worked there was stalking stuff on a lower shelf. and when I started talking to her she tapped the guy with her foot but he just kept stocking stuff on the floor. it was kind of awkward she wasnt really giving me much conversation so I just said it was nice talking to her and left.
Art_Critic Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 it was kind of awkward she wasnt really giving me much conversation so I just said it was nice talking to her and left. Well Duh... She told you she had a BF.. Did you think she was lying and was interested in you ?? The guy might very well have been her BF.. or a friend of his.. they must've been talking about you hitting on her the other day and coming back in yesterday.. Today she just won $5.00 from him.. She bet him that you would show up again...that is what the toe kick was for Where's your pride man ??? You are never going to get a decent kind of girl with desperation oozing out of your pores like it is now
luvtoto Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I hit on a really hot girl who works at a store I was shopping in. She said she had a bf when I tried to get her number which didnt suprise me all that much. I feel like going back into the store this week for round two of trying to get the hottest girl I've seen in a long times number. I usually dont do this but god darnet I have to try this last time I know that if it doesnt work out this time I'll never go there again. Ok, let's jump to the future... So..you steal her away from her BF. He is crushed...but, who cares. That's not your problem. You two are happily dating. You are getting exactly what you want. She is the "hottest girl" in the universe, and is used to men hitting on her. She is the object of desire of about every guy that talks to her. What happens when another man steals her away from you?? I mean, hey, look at her track record. Ain't like she's loyal to her man or anything. But, hey! If that's what will make you happy, then so be it.
Author Green Posted November 30, 2006 Author Posted November 30, 2006 Ok, let's jump to the future... So..you steal her away from her BF. He is crushed...but, who cares. That's not your problem. You two are happily dating. You are getting exactly what you want. She is the "hottest girl" in the universe, and is used to men hitting on her. She is the object of desire of about every guy that talks to her. What happens when another man steals her away from you?? I mean, hey, look at her track record. Ain't like she's loyal to her man or anything. But, hey! If that's what will make you happy, then so be it. I was thinking about dating her, I wasnt thinking to far into the future. Breaking up with her BF because she decided she liked me wouldnt make her some bad untrustworthy person. Technicaly when your a single guy just dating a girl who you havnt proposed to another guy stepping in and stealing her away is always a posibility ur acting like shed be cheating on her fiancee or husband.
alphamale Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 KMT...if a chick is really interested in dating you she'll NEVER tell you she's already involved with someone....actually she may even try to hide the fact she has a b/f already if she likes you more.
Star Gazer Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 KMT...if a chick is really interested in dating you she'll NEVER tell you she's already involved with someone....actually she may even try to hide the fact she has a b/f already if she likes you more. So very, very true.
alphamale Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 So very, very true. i've been around the block a few times SG
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 (i'm running around the Love shack building and screaming)KMT is giving up his Stud muffin days with women????.I can't believe it .I'm in shock.Somebody bring back my stud muffin(yelling):laugh:Alpha talk to him.aahhhh(screaming)
luvtoto Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 KMT...if a chick is really interested in dating you she'll NEVER tell you she's already involved with someone....actually she may even try to hide the fact she has a b/f already if she likes you more. Yes, but like KMT said..she dissed her BF to him. I think she is leaving the door open a bit.
HeadlessZebra Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Yes, but like KMT said..she dissed her BF to him. I think she is leaving the door open a bit. I don't think she did that at all. I think the "Umm, not really" answer was a discomfort response to a stupid, awkward comment. I think she probably meant it like "Um, yeah, ok... whatever, what's it to you, get out of my face."
alphamale Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 ..she dissed her BF to him. I think she is leaving the door open a bit. I don't think so LUBTOTO...women are always dissing their b/f or husbands to everyone who' will listen.
HeadlessZebra Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Furthermore, I think she probably kicked the stockboy in a classic "Dude, this lunatic is bothering me, can you please rescue me?" move.
alphamale Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Furthermore, I think she probably kicked the stockboy in a classic "Dude, this lunatic is bothering me, can you please rescue me?" move. exaclty HZ...and Mr. Stockboy didn't have the balls to do anything. If he did, KMT may be in hospital right now
luvtoto Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I don't think so LUBTOTO...women are always dissing their b/f or husbands to everyone who' will listen. To a guy that's hitting on her? In my experience, if I am getting hit on by a guy that I don't want any attention from...and he's annoying me. I will make up a *pretend* boyfriend and brag about him. By saying, "not really"...it was a negative remark about the BF. IMO.
HeadlessZebra Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 By saying, "not really"...it was a negative remark about the BF. IMO. As I already said, I don't think it meant anything at all. But if you're going to pin a meaning on it, the dialogue went: "Your boyfriend is a lucky man." "Not really." That would be a negative remark about herself, not her boyfriend, as in, no, he's not lucky to have her. How you construed that as a negative remark about the boyfriend is beyond me.
luvtoto Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 As I already said, I don't think it meant anything at all. But if you're going to pin a meaning on it, the dialogue went: "Your boyfriend is a lucky man." "Not really." That would be a negative remark about herself, not her boyfriend, as in, no, he's not lucky to have her. How you construed that as a negative remark about the boyfriend is beyond me. Negative is negative. If she was saying a negative remark about herself,...that IMO would be asking for attention from him.
HeadlessZebra Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Negative is negative. If she was saying a negative remark about herself,...that IMO would be asking for attention from him. So she said the first thing that came to her head because she wasn't interested in the conversation. I've done it before. Poor girl, now she has to live with the consequences of her thoughtless words by having this guy think she was asking him for attention. Next time she should be less polite and give a curt "Sorry, not interested, next customer, please!" I mean, all the other signs point to the fact that she doesn't want anything to do with our stalking friend... so how else could you construe that one little phrase, given the context.
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