lil_ritchy_gurl Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 I dont know what to do and i need to something about it asap. I hate not seeing my boyfriend for more then lik 2 days and I feel like he dosnt care. Like Ive tried to talk about it withi him but he has other things that he wants to do. like last week I didnt see him for 4 days strait. So am I just supposed to pretend like nothings wrong, like I dont miss him?? Or can I some how make him miss me? Like really miss me. ? Like do anything to see me?????? Please help!! :(
whichwayisup Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 2-4 days isn't long enough maybe for him to miss you. If you want him to miss you, back off abit. Let him call you! It's OK to do things apart, you don't have to spend every minute together. He is busy with his things, so why don't you enjoy spending time with your friends, going out and stuff? Don't rely on one person for all your happiness.
norajane Posted November 29, 2006 Posted November 29, 2006 Why do you feel he doesn't care if a few days go by when you don't see each other? Aren't you sure of how he feels for you?
kandygirl Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 my boyfriend and i don't see or talk to eachother every day. in the very beginning, i freaked out because everyone else i've dated in the past has at least called me every day and i wasn't used to it. i never said anything to him, because i didn't want to run him off by being pushy or asking too many questions. now, we STILL don't talk every single day but i have to agree that absence makes the heart grow fonder we both appreciate the time that is spent together when we do hang out. it's actually more exciting when you miss them for a few days then get to be with them! my advice is: don't ask too many questions, don't pressure him, and don't smother him. believe me, it will pay off in the long run. you're gonna be fine
Mythical Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 my boyfriend and i don't see or talk to eachother every day. in the very beginning, i freaked out because everyone else i've dated in the past has at least called me every day and i wasn't used to it. i never said anything to him, because i didn't want to run him off by being pushy or asking too many questions. now, we STILL don't talk every single day but i have to agree that absence makes the heart grow fonder we both appreciate the time that is spent together when we do hang out. it's actually more exciting when you miss them for a few days then get to be with them! my advice is: don't ask too many questions, don't pressure him, and don't smother him. believe me, it will pay off in the long run. you're gonna be fine Aha Kandygirl!! you are so right, I have been with my boy for almost two years and we usually see eacther 2-3 times a week and when were not together we both arn't phone ppl so maybe its a 5-10 min convo. Its the best it makes thing so much more exciting and I look forward to seeing him like I did the first month we were together And If you do miss him so much tell him! maybe he does too but doesn't want to seem attached I use to fee like I culdn't show affection cus than id be the "lower" person but thats just stupid don't wory about missing hm its a good thing! and Im sure he misses you too
vluna00 Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 He can be quite content with you and not see you all the time. He might also be scared of a serious relationship so he avoids spending too much time. I had this happen to me for 1 1/2 years. I was never really sure if he seriuosly loved me and that bugged me. We did go seperate ways, he left to finish up his schooling but I had a phone call one day from someone quite panic telling me how much he truley loved me and how his misses me. It was just too late, you could've showed that a long time ago.
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