Morgs Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 My boyf and I have been together for about 6 months. Very full-on committed relationship - I know he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me, as I do with him... BUT...he is in the process of buying his first house with his brother at the moment, and is stressed about loans, and money, and all the other things associated so has asked me for a bit of "space" while he gets his head around all this mortgage/house stuff. It makes sense that he wants space, but I can't help feeling left out, and thinking that if he REALLY loved me, he would want to share this all with me, and see me - if for comfort and nothing else. He insists nothing is wrong with us, he just needs this time. I'm naturally clingy and this is really hard for me. We have gone from spending every single night together to...well now I haven't seen him for 4 days. Am I just being over-sensitiver about it? Should I respect his wishes?? It's just really getting to me, and I don't know what I should be doing!!
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